Pickup Artist Fashion Pt. 1
Usually it is my girlfriend who pick the clothes for me - not for my benefit…
… so that if we go out in public together she will not feel embarrassed!
If it were me to pick the clothes, I’d wear a sweats and T-shirt all day, together with an old worn sneakers. It means that I think a fashion as silly.
I can absolutely appreciate the aspect of design and style of fashion. When I looked at the able-bodied dressed woman, her outfits is like of art, and I dig that.
I kinda lose respect when a guy is “too stylish.”
Don’t get it wrong, a guy should present himself like he means to be taken seriously. A good quality, nice and well-fitting clothes are a fundamental to masculine expression.
But some guys take it too far.
Case in point, the obsession with “peacocking” in the pickup Community for the past several years.
Hearing that words makes me cringe.
YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.
If you don’t know what “peacocking” is, let me explain it to you.
A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based “game,” relying heavily on superficial techniques, status games, and over-analysis of social interactions.
I didn’t see the value of any of this, and have always gone in the opposite direction.
The main reason for this is that I saw how pretending to be someone other than yourself, and saying jokes and routines that other guys came up with JUST FELT WRONG.
The PRIMARY FOCUS of all these strategy and game-playing was to visibly get approval from women, but making them feel insecure and they’d think you were cooler than them.
Think of this bullshit layers in the approach to dating. Not only are you faking your personality because you
a) seek approval (as if women were an authority on what makes a man a man)
b) hide the truth that you’re looking for approval
c) play games that will make women feel insecure so that they will try to seek your approval
YUCK
One of the main techniques of this approach was to “peacock,” to dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that women would “notice” you and want to talk to you.
Now there’s nothing wrong with wearing a nice watch, or a necklace that has some personal meaning.
I don’t want women to like me because of that.
I’m sure many guys have seen the advocates of this approach on TV shows,straining to make sense out of this hare-brained “technique.”
I’ve personally encountered students of other pickup schools, and felt sad because these poor guys were not only nervous, clumsy, misdirected…they looked RETARDED.
So I’d like to set a record when it comes to fashion and meeting girls.
There are only a handful of things you need to pay attention to when it comes to your appearance.
After knowing this stuff, you should put it out of your mind and TAKE ACTION before women can notice you.
Before we move on, I have a secret that has to reveal.
(To be Continued in Part 2)
