Dating Advice for Men

Have you seen a girl you’d love to
talk to, but she’s walking down
the street…

… In the other direction?

It sucks, because one side of your
mind wants to hop in front of her
and say,

“Hi there, let’s hang out”

… But something used to stop me.

>> I noticed once my self-confidence
got stronger, I would stop women on
the street almost automatically.

And it was especially apparent once
I mastered the principles I reveal
in The Red Pill program. These little
- but POWERFUL – ingredients are all
you’ll ever need for rock-solid
confidence when women are around.

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YOU tell ME:

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>>>

I used to just close up, because
imagine how AWKWARD it would be,
if you were in her shoes:

You’re walking down the street,
minding your own business, when
a total and complete STRANGER
starts talking to you.

Even worse – You can SMELL that
he wants you for your body, or
just wants to get your phone
number.

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HERE’S WHERE YOUR MIND IS
PLAYING TRICKS ON YOU:
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Put yourself in her shoes, again,
but this time – Imagine yourself
getting stopped by a guy who
RADIATES confidence, and holds
himself with pride…

This guy OOZES a deep, inner sexuality,
and you can tell that he wants to
get to know you, as a person…

… And at the same time, he’s not
holding himself back, hiding or
trying to “trick” you into
anything.

Stopping becomes a no-brainer,
right? You bet your ass it does!

**KEY UNDERSTANDING: Women want
to meet men JUST AS MUCH as YOU
want to meet women.

She needs to feel:

1) SAFE

2) That you’re a GREAT GUY

3) A sense of HONESTY

(I teach you how to have ALL these
things in The Attraction Code:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/ac24mint

But here’s a little way to
“cheat”, tonight:)

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AND HERE’S A TECHNIQUE THAT
COVERS EVERYTHING SHE’S
LOOKING FOR, IN YOU:
***************************

When she’s still in front of you,
make eye-contact with her, smile,
then lightly grab her shoulder
while saying this:

“Hey, I couldn’t help but notice
you, and I’d feel like I missed out
if we didn’t get to know each
other just a little bit. My
name’s *YOURNAME*”

The whole time, keep eye contact
and a light smile.

By the time you finish saying
this, you should both have
turned, just a little bit,
to face each other.

In summary, you were walking up,
she was walking down, and now
you’re both facing left and
right, respectively.

Got the picture? Good

***HERE’S WHY THIS WORKS***

1) You both made eye contact, so
when you say:

“I couldn’t help but notice you”

She can tell herself you weren’t
trying to meet her JUST for her
body.

(Which is very important to women)

2) You put an “understood” time limit
on the interaction:

“Get to know each other, just a little
bit”

Implies you two will only be talking
for a few seconds – a few minutes,
MAX.

This is good because it makes her feel
like she can just walk away if things
get too intense.

And it’s good for YOU because getting
a woman’s phone number FAST is BETTER
for you, in the long run.

(I can’t really go into it right now,
because it would take too long. But
I reveal why – and how to get her
phone number EASILY – In my DVD program
NoFlakes! You’ll also discover the
“perfect” text message and voicemail,
as well as how to get her to pick
up her phone – Everytime. Check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/nf24bint)

3) Even if she says she has to go,
you can easily get her phone number.

Here’s what you say:

“OK, I can see you’re a little too
busy to chat. I don’t usually do this,
but I’d love to give you a call sometime”

Let her say OK, then ask for her
phone number.

If she hesitates, just hop in
with “So what’s your phone number?
I promise I’ll only send you 50
stalker-texts per day”

… With a little smile.

This is humble, funny and will put
her mind at EASE.

(Remember: Make her feel SAFE)

So getting her phone number should
be no sweat.

Now, when you’re reading this email
you may think stopping a woman on
the street is TOUGH or CONFUSING…

… But it’s really quite SIMPLE.

Let’s review:

1) Make eye contact

2) Get her attention and say this,
while turning her to face you:

“Hey, I couldn’t help but notice
you, and I’d feel like I missed out
if we didn’t get to know each
other just a little bit. My
name’s *YOURNAME*”

3) Then get her phone number,
either using the techniques from
NoFlakes, or this sentence:

“OK, I can see you’re a little too
busy to chat. I don’t usually do this,
but I’d love to give you a call sometime”

Easy. As. Pie.

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HERE’S WHY THIS TECHNIQUE
WILL *FAIL*, IF YOU DON’T
HAVE INNER-CONFIDENCE:
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You see, WHAT you say isn’t everything.

In fact, HOW you say it is INFINITELY
more important.

Remember a time when someone told you
a story, but your gut told you it was
a lie.

What set you off?

Was it WHAT he said?

Well, it COULD have been – if he was
a terrible liar – But most likely,
it was the TONE of his voice, or HOW
he HELD himself.

You see, as humans, we’ve evolved for
THOUSANDS of years to pick up little
changes in each other, to protect
ourselves from harm.

And because women are smaller, she’s
even better than you at picking
these signals up.

So to you – You may feel a little
awkward or nervous…

… And to her, you’re literally
shaking in your boots!

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HERE’S THE GOOD NEWS:
**********************

It doesn’t have to be this way.

In fact – Here’s the KEY to LOOKING
and ACTING confident in ANY situation,
even if you’re so scared, your teeth
are chattering:

RE-LAX.

Chill out.

Easier said than done, right? Well,
I’m going to give you a technique
to chill you out in just a second.

But first, here’s why relaxing is
so damn powerful:

You see, your mind and your body are
inter-connected.

If your body is tense, your mind can’t
relax. And vica versa.

So if you’re mentally tensing up,
protecting yourself from being
hurt or rejected by her…

… It comes across in your body
language and voice, and her “red
flags” are set off.

The alarm sirens literally ring in
her ears.

And she’ll find a polite way to
get away from you, as fast as
possible.

HERE’S HOW TO *TRICK* YOUR MIND:

Relax your BODY.

In fact, whenever you get nervous,
“escape” to your ‘quiet room’ in
your mind.

Imagine a place, sound or color
that’s soothing and calming, to
you.

And whenever you get nervous,
imagine yourself in that place
or looking at that color for
a few minutes, until the tension
literally washes away.

You see, we’re bombarded by so
much in today’s day and age,
you’re probably ‘nervous’ by
nature.

Which causes your mind to ‘freeze
up’

And makes talking to a woman TOUGH
AS HELL.

When you learn how to relax your
mind and body, you will be able
to communicate your feelings to
her EASIER.

And she will FEEL the same things
you do. Basically making seducing
her a BREEZE, instead of a chore.

This is why I spend so much time
talking about the types of touch.

Including sensual touch.

And the intentions plus energy
behind them.

Because if you can’t relax, your
touch will feel like a freight train
or brick to her… Instead of like
a light feather, tickling her skin
and lightly turning her on.

(I teach you how to use your
words and touch to turn her on
in MINUTES in the S-Cubed program:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/s324bint)

So take a step back.

Relax.

Go talk to the next beautiful woman
you meet – on the street.

And I’ll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

- Vin

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Got an awesome email, and with it
I’m going to share an awesome
answer.

In this email, I’ll teach you my
most powerful technique for keeping
a conversation going for as long
as you’d like.

No matter what you’re talking
about, or where you meet her.

Check it out:

>>>
And if you want a hollow-tip clip
of conversational ammo, watch
Conversation CURE. You can read
more about it, below:

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>>>

****QUESTION FROM READER****

“Hey Vin,

been getting your newsletters for a while
and I gotta say I’m pretty impressed.

I have read numerous books about women
(yourself and a few others) and I gotta say,
it has totally changed my life.

Before I couldn’t even talk to women and
now I can flirt like mad and most of
my friends can’t wait to see me!

It’s been an awesome turn around

Well anyway, there is a major issue I have
though. I can be fun and entertaining and
have an awesome time for a while, but
I find that sometimes I struggle
with interesting conversation.

It’d be awesome if you could give me
any conversational tips you may have

- what to talk about?

- how to make it interesting?

- specific things I should say/ do
for particular effects?

Thanks man, n keep up the good work!

- T, from down under”

>>> Hey T,

Thanks for the props

I’m glad you’ve been learning
and USING this information in
your daily life, because you
can read all you want…

… Still, if you’re not TALKING
to a beautiful woman every couple
of days, you are not going to
get better, FASTER.

Anyways.

Quite a lot of questions, so
I’m going to answer them one
at a time:

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WHAT SHOULD YOU TALK ABOUT
WITH WOMEN YOU WANT?
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HERE’S THE BIG PROBLEM:

Certain “topics” won’t make
your conversations interesting.

Really, there are two parts to
having a conversation that’s
got no awkward pauses and
keeps her interested, the
whole time:

1) Being EXCITING

The key here is to be PASSIONATE
about what you’re talking about,
even if it’s ‘boring’ by most
people’s standards.

For instance, when you’re talking
to a woman about her job or where
she grew up, relate it back to
a part of your job you’re passionate
about… or tell her a great story
about your growing up as a kid.

Be expressive.

Use your hands.

Touch her on the shoulder or arm
when you want to make a point.

And let your emotions run wild.

THAT’S why she usually goes for
exciting, wild “party boys”,
and when you make it work for
you, you can get the hot club-queen
girls without feeling like a
loser.

2) Being SMOOTH

The key HERE is to make each topic
SPRING almost magically from the
last.

Because awkward pauses are simply
silences where you’re thinking:

“I wonder what to say” and “oh no!
She must be getting bored!”

HERE’S HOW TO ELIMINATE
AWKWARD PAUSES, ONCE AND
FOR ALL:

It’s a technique I call “threading”,
because I’ll show you how to ‘weave’
a conversation out of topical threads,
like a well-knit shirt or sweater.

(I go into much, much great detail
in both The Attraction Code and
Conversation Cure, as well)

STEP ONE: Talk about something.

Anything.

This is the easy part.

STEP TWO: Notice the “threads” in
your conversation.

Sounds tough, but it’s really easy.
Let me explain:

In the sentence: “I was a real tech
geek in high school” there are
3 or 4 good threads.

Do you see them? Here, let me
help you out:

“I was” – Your past, things that
happened in the past

“Tech geek” – People you know
who are good with computers,
or your past, embarrassing
experiences

“High school” – Your high school
life, or people you knew in
high school

All threading is, is noticing
these topics and then saying
something about them.

For example, if she says:

“I love reading Cosmo magazine,
especially the sex articles”

… Not only have you scored
a home-run …

… Also, ALL of the following
sentences would be GREAT, SMOOTH
replies to her:

“Men’s Health has got to be my
favorite magazine because it mixes
workouts, fashion and lifestyle”

“I tried reading Cosmo once and
I got sucked in by the stories.
Do you girls REALLY think like
that? It was nuts!”

“My friend told me about this
great ’sex techniques’ book,
and I thought he was crazy.
But I got curious and picked
it up, and it’s changed my
entire sex life for the
better”

…

… So Threading – and eliminating
awkward pauses, once and for all -
Is simply:

STEP ONE: She says something

STEP TWO: You notice the threads

STEP THREE: You pick one, and
respond

Easy as pie

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HOW TO BE INTERESTING, AND
HAVE FASCINATING CONVERSATIONS
WITH ANY GIRL YOU MEET:
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Ahhh… The age-old “how can I
be INTERESTING, so I can CONVINCE
her to like me?”

It’s really a whole lot easier
than you’re making it out to
be.

Here’s why:

You can’t CONVINCE her to like
you.

It’s physically impossible.

You can be INTERESTING to high-heaven
and she’s still never going to
think “Hm, this guy is interesting.
Maybe I should date him”

I think what you REALLY mean is
“How do I say something interesting
- that will make her FEEL something
for me?”

Because THAT’S where the “g-spot”
of conversation with women is:

GETTING HER TO FEEL EMOTIONS
USING ONLY THE WORDS YOU SPEAK

There are a TON of ways to do this,
but today I’m going to teach you
my favorite:

Story-telling

We’re hard-wired to FEEL emotions
when someone tells us a powerful
story.

For instance, if I started telling
you this story:

“I was in the car with my friend,
and it was a rainy night. Thunder
everywhere, and the roads were
slick and wet like puddles.

Out of nowhere, a cat ran across the
road, I swerved to avoid it and
we slammed headfirst into a
tree. I heard the glass shatter,
then I passed out”

… You’re going to wonder what
happened next. Was everyone OK?
Was the car totaled?

And with the tone of your voice,
you can set the scene even MORE.

Because you can sound somber for
a sad story… Happy for a glad
one…

From Jesus onwards, we’ve been
programmed to learn lessons and
feel things from a well told
story.

And there are three major things
most men screw up, when telling
a woman a story to MOVE her
emotions:

1) Poor topic choice.

I can’t tell how many times I’ve
heard frat-stories told to young-30s
businesswomen, or even sob-stories
told to women in general.

Here are a few hard, fast rules:

* Tell her a story that MATCHES
where she is in life (ie. don’t
tell young girls stories about
divorce or children)

* Keep your stories UPBEAT and
HAPPY (Unless it’s how you OVERCAME
a tough situation, which is
also good. Focus on happy
ENDINGS)

2) The story that never ends,
and is FILLED with useless
information.

Keep it short and simple.

DON’T say:

“Yesterday, because I was feeling blue
and down I hit Harry who’s a down-and-dirty
weasel, right in the face”

There’s too much crowding, and
your core message gets LOST.

(So she won’t FEEL the impact)

Instead, say:

“Yesterday, I hit Harry”

You get the same point across,
and you won’t lose her in the
process.

3) Relate it to the topic
at hand.

This is the threading technique
I told you about, above.

If a story comes from left field
she’ll be wondering “why is he
telling me this?”, instead of
actually LISTENING.

So make it relevant.

And if you’d like to check out a
real story-telling master in action,
you should watch Conversation Cure.

In it, my buddy Rewok (he’s got a
great pen-name) teaches a whole
two-hour lesson on how to tell an
amazing story, and then gives
live feedback on three audience
stories.

(So you can pick apart your own
stories ALONG with the DVD, and
next time you tell them to a
woman, she’ll be captivated,
instead of bored)

Read all about it, below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc23mint

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WHAT SHOULD YOU SAY TO HER,
IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A
ONE-NIGHT-STAND?
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I’ve gotten more questions about
one-night stands than anything else.

And it makes sense:

Sex is fun. And we’re a nation of
instant gratification.

(Plus the thought of getting down
and dirty with a complete stranger
is exciting)

HERE’S WHAT MOST WOMEN AREN’T
TELLING YOU:

SHE loves a little one-night-lovin,
too.

In fact, most women have gone out
with the EXPRESS PURPOSE of having
sex with a random man, that same
night.

So how do YOU become the guy
she wants to take home?

Actually, it’s a hell of a lot
EASIER than you may first think.

And here are 3 RULES TO LIVE BY,
FOR ONE-NIGHT STANDS, THE NEXT
TIME YOU GO OUT:

**RULE #1: Find ‘the right’ girl

I’ve noticed most women who go
out looking for a one night stand
will go out with a girlfriend who
knows the situation.

So girls in groups of two are a
good place to start.

ALSO – Look for girls who are
dressed a little more sexy, flashy
and spend a little more time
looking around the bar.

These are all subconscious signs
she’s “on the prowl”

**RULE #2: Get logistics

When you talk to her, make sure
you ask her these questions
somewhere during your
convo:

“Who’d you come with?”

“When do you have to get up
tomorrow?”

“Who (in the group) drove?”

The correct answers are:

* Alone or with a couple of
friends – No boyfriends or
co-workers

* Later is better

* Her. And she drove in
her own car

Otherwise, there’s a great
chance her friends will pull
her away at the end of the
night.

**RULE #3: Shape her

There’s a technique I call ’shaping’
that lets you bring out ANY quality
in a woman.

I teach you HOW and WHEN to use this
technique in the S-Cubed program:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/s323btm

… And for a one-night stand,
you ideally want a woman who’s:

1) Adventurous

2) Spontaneous

3) Open to new experiences

Shape those three qualities in,
and you’re good to go.

In fact, I highly recommend you
listen to S-Cubed simply because
in it, I teach you how to TOUCH
a woman so she’s turned on around
you, as well as how to use your
WORDS to turn her on, sexually.

And both of those will make a
one-night stand much, MUCH
easier.

Check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/s323btm2

Follow those 3 simple rules, and
you’ll have no trouble at all
bringing a girl you just met
back to your place to hang out
and hook up.

If you’ve got any other questions,
please, send em in to askvin@vindicarlo.com

I check my email once per night,
and I’d love to answer YOUR
question.

And if you have any BIG questions
you think only one of my personally
trained Coaches could handle,
consider applying for the
Drills Bootcamp program.

In it, you get a highly trained Coach
to walk you through everything you need
to meet women – Including how to stand,
walk, touch and talk to her.

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and isn’t a commitment.

You’re simply letting me know where
I should send you’re welcome package
of freebies and goodies.

So go apply, right away, and I’ll
talk to you soon.

I still remember when bars and clubs
were intimidating, scary places.

The noise and the lights made everyone
seem either super-attractive…

… Or in the case of other guys,
huge and intimidating.

Everyone seemed to be having a good
time, except for me.

And the alcohol didn’t make it easier,
either.

After years of going out, I finally
started approaching women in bars
and clubs.

Sometimes the music was too loud for
her to hear me… Sometimes she’d
even IGNORE me completely.

I had my hopes and confidence in myself
SHATTERED in a matter of minutes.

And I never wanted to go back to these
places to meet women, ever again.

Now, I took the easy route:

I started approaching women during
the day until my skills and success
with women was so overwhelming,
meeting her at night didn’t
seem so scary.

Until my self-confidence was bullet-proof
and impossible to crack.

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>>>>>

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HERE’S A SHORT-CUT TO QUICK
AND EASY SUCCESS WITH WOMEN
IN BARS AND NIGHTCLUBS, TONIGHT:
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Because I understand that avoiding
bars and clubs simply isn’t an option
sometimes.

I mean, who wants to turn down your
buddies for drinks… Just because
women make you nervous?

So here’s how to approach a woman
in bars and nightclubs:

You have to remember, she’s been
hit on for the last three, four
or even more hours.

Mostly by drunken idiots, who
oggle her breasts, and make
lewd, sexual remarks to try
to pick her up.

(Hey baby, what’s your number?
Want to come back to my place?
God your so hot, I’m going to
do you SO good… Etc)

So the key is to get around her
automatic ‘assumption’ of YOU
as one of these guys.

You may have heard of stories
or asking her opinion about
something.

Personally, I don’t like these
because I feel you’re masking
your real intentions just a
little too much.

Unless you really DID want to
know who lies more, men or
women… In that case, go
for it.

Personally, I suggest walking up
to her and talking about your
environment, or surroundings.

Maybe even something she has on,
or the way she holds herself.

For instance, if you’re at a
sports bar and a cute girl has
your fav. team’s colors painted
on her face, walk up to her and
say:

“Wow. You’re looking festive”

Which is kind of funny, or maybe
even…

“Love the face paint. You’re
totally kicking my ass for the
‘best TEAMNAME fan’ award today”

Both of these are light, and
they give her a chance to start
talking to you, about a topic
that’s direct, but non-sexual.

From there, just start threading
and continue the conversation.

>>> I’ll get more into threading
in a different email, but if you’d
like to know how to carry a convo
with a girl for HOURS without a
second’s awkward pause… You
really should watch Convo CURE.

In it, you’ll learn techniques that
make talking to her easy, effortless
and FUN – Without any of the stress.
Check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc21mint
>>>

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HERE’S WHY THAT APPROACH
IS THE BEST:
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A) You’re not masking the fact that
you’re talking to her because you
want to talk to her.

You’re not pretending you just want
to tell her a story or ask her
opinion, and then you’ll go
away.

So if she wants to chat, she can
chat.

And if she’s feeling down in the dumps,
or ‘closed off’ that night, she can
let you know quickly, without you
wasting your time.

B) You’re not masking how you FEEL
about her.

You’re a guy. You like how she looks,
or what she’s doing.

So, obviously, there’s the potential for
a sexual spark there.

And it won’t feel “forced” or from left
field when you go for her phone number,
later on in the night.

C) You’re talking about something personal,
to either you or her.

And it doesn’t have to be “therapist’s couch”
personal, either.

You’re talking about her opinions of
this place / music / shirt.

You’re talking about how you and her
see the world.

And you’re talking about something related
to YOU or HER… Instead of some story
about your friend…

… or, worse yet…

… Stumbling through an awkward pause,
where you’re stuck in your head,
only WONDERING what she’s thinking.

(ProTip: The most powerful question you
can ask a girl is, “What do you think
about XXX?” And then shut up and listen.

Listen to her answer, and talk about
something she mentioned in it.

That’s the core basics of ‘threading’)

So use this technique TONIGHT to
meet that beautiful girl in your
local pub or nightclub.

And remember – Beautiful girls respond
to the SAME STUFF ‘average’ looking girls
do.

The ONLY difference is how you feel about
YOURSELF.

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self-confidence, check out The Red Pill
Program:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/rp21btm

And if you’d like BOTH the self-confidence
AND the techniques to put it to work
for you, I highly recommend you read
The Attraction Code.

You can check out some free samples
at the link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/ac21btm

I wish you the best of luck, and
CONFIDENCE in meeting the women
you want and deserve.

Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. Tongue tied?

Watch Conversation CURE:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc21ps

If you’ve recently been through a divorce,
or broken up with your girlfriend, your
life may seem “over”, when it comes to
meeting women.

After all, you just got tossed from
semi-regular sex and comfort back into
the “dating game”

It may seem like the rules have changed
or even like you’re starting from
scratch.

I’ve been there. I broke up with my
wife after only 6 months of marriage.

And in my line of work, you’re bound
to get ‘dumped’ once or twice.

So I’ve devoted this email to solving
your deepest darkest breakup questions,
sent by email from guys in your shoes.

Check it out:

“Vin,

I’ve got two kids, I’m 40 and I just
got out of a pretty messy divorce.

I read The Attraction Code and now
I know what to SAY to women Im interested
in but bars and clubs still seem scary
to me.

Do you have any good tips to meet
a woman during the day? I always
see hot moms at Whole Foods and
I’d love to talk to her.

Thanks again for all your advice.

- John C.”

>>>>> Hey John,

I’m glad The Attraction Code gave you
the confidence you needed to get back
on your feet.

I remember being crushed when my wife
left me, so I feel your pain.

Thankfully, you’re already over the
hard part: Getting your head back
“in the game”

>>>>
If you’re still wondering how you’ll
ever get over your ex, try reading
The Attraction Code.

I’ve gotten thousands of emails from
men around the globe who swear The ‘Code
helped them see OPPORTUNITY and CHANCE
with women, wherever they went.

And if you’re hurtin’, that may be
the exact medicine the doctor ordered.

You can check it out – and read some
free samples – at the link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/ac20tint
>>>>

You’re “looking”, single and ready
to mingle.

Which is a HUGE first step.

The next step is talking to a woman
you could be romantically (or just
sexually) interested in.

Like you pointed out, bars and clubs
can be intimidating because it seems
everyone there operates on a separate
set of “rules” you may not be familiar
with.

And alcohol is a killer to your “game”
as well as your sex drive.

So..

********************************
HERE’S SOME GREAT ADVICE FOR
MEETING A WOMAN DURING THE DAY:
********************************

(At a grocery store, especially. Great
catch, discovering how many ‘MILFS’
pack into these places)

During the day – and especially while
she’s running errands – It’s best for
you to come in “under the radar.”

If she feels like you’re “hitting on
her”, she could be turned off.

Or even worse, she could like you
but not want to come across too
“easy”

So a simple conversation starter is
best.

I like to talk about something
around me.

For instance, if she’s got a ton of
veggies in her cart, I’ll walk up
to her and say:

“Man, you’d make my vegetarian friend
super-jealous right now”

And I’d give her a little smile.

She’d laugh, because it’s low-pressure
and kind of funny.

THE MOST IMPORTANT PART IS: Now
we’re talking.

Either:

A) She’ll tell me the story behind
all of her veggies

or

B) I’ll ask her how her day’s been,
or what she’s planning to do with
the crazy amount of greens in her
cart

Eventually, you’ll start chatting
about a common interest, and at
that point you get her phone
number.

I’ve got a bunch of “smoother” tactics
inside my NoFlakes! program, but here’s
my tried-and-true way to get her
number:

“We should totally do *WHATEVER WE WERE
TALKING ABOUT* sometime”

She says OK, I say “I’ll give you
a call”

She says OK, I say “OK, what’s your
number?”

And boom. Easy as pie.

(By the way, you can check out
the NoFlakes Program, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/nf20mint)

Next question:

“I’ve read and watched everything
you’ve ever put out and my dating
life was fantastic.

I met this beautiful girl and we
dated on and off for three years.

But last month she dumped me. I
think it was because I started to
let her make all the decisions and
become the dominant force in the
relationship.

I really chopped off my balls
on that one.

Anyways Ive started going back
out to bars and clubs but Im
having no success.

I always think about getting HER
back and it keeps me from meeting
girls who are otherwise into me
and stunning.

HELP! How do I get over her
Vin?

- Terry K.”

>>>> Hey Terry,

I’m glad you used what I taught you
to get a beautiful woman in your life.

Unfortunately, like you said…

… You didn’t KEEP using it.

That’s mistake #1.

***************************
THE KEY TO KEEPING A GIRL
INTO YOU FOR YEARS & YEARS:
***************************

… Is seducing and attracting her,
each and every time you open your
mouth.

Usually, this will happen automatically
once you’ve mastered the techniques
in The Attraction Code.

>>> You do have your copy, right?
You can check it out for free, below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/ac20bint
>>>

However, it seems to me like you
met this girl and settled down
almost as soon as you got “good”
with women.

So, naturally, your ’skills’ started
to fade back to your old and ‘normal’
levels…

… Then she slowly got more and more
UN-attracted to you.

OUCH.

Enough focusing on the negative.

*************************************
HERE’S HOW YOU FORGET ABOUT YOUR EX
AND START MEETING NEW WOMEN, TONIGHT:
*************************************

You’ve gotta fight through the rough
spots.

It sucks. It hurts.

But it’s going to suck and hurt
even MORE if you don’t meet another
woman, and spend the rest of your
life alone.

Here’s a quick fix to make the
‘grieving’ process shorter:

1) Take a BREATHER WEEKEND, to yourself.

Watch your favorite movies.

Do your favorite activities.

Go hang out at your favorite places.

And overall, take a weekend to decompress,
destress and stop being depressed.

The key here is to not do anything
involving women.

Don’t try to meet girls.

Don’t force yourself to talk to any
strangers what so ever.

Just put yourself in the most relaxing
and freeing situations and experiences
you can possibly think of.

Take a weekend to compose yourself.

2) Meet women during your DAILY ROUTINE.

Use the advice I gave above^^^^^^^^^^^^
to meet women, during the day.

Because meeting women in bars and clubs
usually involves alcohol.

And alcohol is a – you guessed it – depressant.

So the hard work you spent relaxing and
calming yourself will be quickly reversed
the second a drop of “liquid courage”
hits your tongue.

3) Start heading back to bars and clubs,
with your boys.

It could even be your co-workers.

Just don’t go anywhere you could bump
into her, and don’t go there alone.

Preferably, pick pals that will keep
your spirits high and not put you
down.

And spend the night relaxing, enjoying
the company of the people around you.

By now, you’ll be comfortable talking to
girls again, so you can chat up any cutie
you see if you feel like it.

>>>>
And if you feel nervous, or wonder what the
‘right’ thing to say is… You’ve probably
still got Conversational Mindblock.

Ouch.

I recommend you take one of your Breather
Weekend days and pop in Conversation CURE.
In it, I reveal everything you’ll ever
need to know to ditch awkward silences
once and for all… And to finally feel
smooth instead of stuttery, around
attractive women.

Read all about it, at the page below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc20bint
>>>>

From there, you’ll want to get her
phone number and go on a date.

(Or maybe you’ll bust out the DEL
techniques and take her home that
night…)

And presto bango, you’re one step
closer to ditching your depression
over that she-devil of an ex-gf

******************************
MAKE SURE YOU REMEMBER THIS
ONE, SIMPLE & POWERFUL THING:
******************************

Ex-wife, ex-gf or none of the above,
you’re OK as you are.

Just because one woman either didn’t
like you, or wasn’t the “right” girl
for you DOES NOT mean you are somehow
‘broken’ or ‘flawed’

(No matter how much bullshit venom
she spewed while you two were fighting)

All you need to do, to have the dating
life you’ve always wanted, is to get
out there and start meeting women.

Read these emails.

Use the techniques.

They really, truly help.

And if you want some additional assistance
(including word-for-word tips, tricks,
techniques and sentences to say)
I highly recommend you check out
The Red Pill program.

In this tiny package, I share a few
secrets that changed my beliefs about
dating and women, once and for all.

Best of all – You can have this potent
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Find out how to claim YOUR Red Pill
at the link below:

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Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. And if you need some major guns
help, maybe private coaching is your
best option.

I can hook you up with one of my
extremely discrete and highly trained
coaches at a Drills Bootcamp.

You can read all about it, and apply,
at the link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/dr20ps

Don’t worry – When you apply, you’re
NOT making a commitment.

You’re simply telling me where and
when to send you more info and some
freebies and goodies.

So go apply, today.

I got this great email question
and success story.

Check it out:

“Hey Vin!

I love The Attraction Code. Since
reading it meeting women has never
been easier. I can walk right up
to women without feeling any kind
of fear of hesitation what so ever!

Thing is I dont always know what to
say to her. Lots of times my tongue
ties itself into knots and I just
freeze up. My mind goes blank and
honestly I hate dealing with the
awkward silence.

How should I handle this? What do
I SAY!?

Thanks for all your great advice
in you emails and please help me.

- Sean P.”

>>>>>Hey Sean,

First of all – If you have ANY trouble
what so ever talking to a woman, than
I highly recommend you check out my
Conversation CURE program.

In it, I teach you what to say to her,
how to touch her so your conversation
turns sexual and even what WORDS to
use, so she sees you as a potential
BOYFRIEND – Not just another “pal”

You can check it out, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc19top

There are two kinds of “right things”
to say to women:

1) What she WANTS to hear

and

2) What she NEEDS to hear

Pretty simple, right? Great.

When you freeze up before you say your
FIRST words to her, you’re stuck wondering
what she WANTS to hear.

“Maybe I should compliment her… No,
I can’t show her I’m interested, right
away… What if I just say hi, or ask
her about her day…?”

I used to wonder if she would be ‘turned
off’ or ‘reject’ the first words I said
to her.

So let me help you CHEAT a bit:

Just Say HI!

Open your mouth and say THIS, word for
word:

“Hey, my name’s YOURNAME. I saw you, and
had to meet you. How’s your day going?”

This WORKS, because it’s what she NEEDS
to hear.

Let me explain:

Most women you see during the day are
doing chores, visiting friends and
pretty much BUSY WITH THEIR LIVES.

So when a stranger (you) starts talking
to her, she’s wondering three things:

1) Is this guy SAFE for me to talk to?

That’s why you just say “Hi” to her.

Because being a regular, calm guy will
transfer over to her.

If you seem nervous or jumpy, she’ll
think you’ve got an “ulterior motive”
and MAY want to hurt her.

That’s why women REJECT most men:

Because They Can’t Chill Out
For Two Seconds.

(It’s much easier than it looks:
Just take a deep breath, and put
on a small smile. Any OTHER “nerves”
you feel are internal, and won’t
trigger her alarms)

2) What does he WANT from me?

Just like you learned above, women
are worried you want to USE her
for sex… or worse.

So when you tell her:

“Hey, I just want to chat”

She can immediately switch off her
defenses… just a little bit.

Because just talking is a SMALL
investment, and doesn’t require
her to GIVE anything to you.

Just words.

Just conversation.

And she’d be RUDE to refuse.

(Remember that. Socially savvy
aka. beautiful women KNOW that
ignoring you is RUDE. So 90%
of the time she won’t blow you
off, during the day)

3) Should I STOP and keep talking, or
ignore him completely?

And here’s the TOUGHEST PART:

“Convincing her” to stop and chat
with you.

… Or, is it?

>>>>
I talk about this in MUCH more detail
in The Attraction Code, but because
I don’t want to write you a BOOK of
an email, I’ve got to be brief today.

If you want to know HOW to talk to a
beautiful woman… plus… Finally
have the strong self-confidence it
takes to walk up to her and start a
conversation, you should check out
The Attraction Code.

In it, I share my best basic and
advanced tactics for meeting women.
I spent over ten years learning them,
and you can master them in under
ten hours.

Click the link below to check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/ac19mint
>>>>

***********************
HERE’S WHERE THE MEDIA
HAS BEEN LYING TO YOU:
***********************

She doesn’t WANT to be “convinced”
to stop and talk.

In fact, she NEEDS a man who KNOWS
that her talking to you isn’t doing
you a favor.

I know, I know… It’s a lot easier to
SAY than DO.

Still, you must value yourself.

Some people call it self-confidence,
and some guys call it brass balls.

What she really NEEDS is simply a
man who KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS.

And isn’t scared to get it for
himself.

Think about it:

When we lived in caves and huts,
she NEEDED the man who would hunt
and FIGHT for her food.

This turned her on, and the women
who bred with these men had the
strongest babies.

So when you walk up to her, in the
middle of the day and start a calm,
interesting conversation…

… You’re going to flip her mental
attraction ’switches’…

… And SHE WILL HAVE NO CHOICE but
to be hopelessly attracted to you.

HERE’S THE SECRET NO ONE
TELLS YOU:

It gets EASIER and EASIER, the more
women you talk to.

So the fear and frustration you feel
right now will slowly VANISH when you
talk to beautiful women.

Even if you get shot down.

Because your self-image will change.

You will SEE YOURSELF as the type
of man who meets women.

And you’ll stop seeing talking to
girls as a RISK. You’ll start meeting
women AUTOMATICALLY…

… because…

… It’s just who you are.

Sound too good to be true?

I thought so, too. Until ten years ago,
when I met Tony.

He’s the type of guy women can’t get
enough of.

What’s shocking is that he’s short,
balding and stocky.

(Not your TYPICAL ladies man, huh?)

We got to be friends and he shared his
secrets with me.

I spent ten years perfecting them and
then packed them into a book I call
The Attraction Code.

You can read the full story – and a few
samples of the program – When you click
the link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/ac19btm

And once you start talking, you will
probably want to get her phone number.

In the coming weeks, I’ll share one or
two of my favorite number snatching
techniques.

If you can’t wait – or want women texting
you back like your name was saved as
“Rockstar” in their address book –
You should watch my NoFlakes! DVD
program.

You can read all about it, at the link
below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/nf19btm

And I’ll talk to you in a few.

Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. Don’t forget! Talking to women
is EASY – If you let it be.

Sometimes your nerves are from
lack of experience.

In that case – Just walk up to girls
on the street and say “hi”

Don’t try to pick her up.

Just be friendly, and start chatting.

You’ll ditch THOSE nerves in no-
time-flat.

Other times – Your nerves are from
lack of knowledge.

Those nerves can be solved by reading
these emails for advice and tips.

And if you want both:

A) A quicker solution

B) My most powerful tricks

You should check out Conversation CURE.

I named it Conversation Cure because
it will CURE you of your “right first
words” blues…

… And arm you with never-ending clips
of conversational ammo.

Powerful stuff, too.

Read more about it, at the link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc19ps

There’s nothing worse than
getting a girl’s number, and
setting up a cool date,
when she doesn’t show,
anyway.

>>> This email is pure gold
for once you get her number.

If you’re slightly struggling
nabbing her number (or don’t
know the BEST way to ASK),
I highly recommend you read
The Attraction Code.

It’s got step-by-step instructions
that make getting her contact info
a BREEZE. You can read samples here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/ac18atf
>>>

I mean, you finally work up
the nerve to talk to this
gorgeous creature… With
her smooth skin, soft hair,
and adorable eyes…

You muster up the courage
to GO FOR IT, and get her
phone number…

You text and call each other
back and forth for days –
even WEEKS — Before
you set up some smooth
and intriguing date to go on…

… And then you get there
(a couple of minutes early),
Just to have her no-show
and leave you waiting.

OR EVEN WORSE:

She calls you to say she’s
late… And then calls back
to say she can’t make it.

So she not only wasted your
time… And left you with your
heart on your sleeve…

… You’re forced to look like
a desperate dork, who couldn’t
find another date for the day.

Please pardon my French, here,
but: Fuck that.

Now… You have a few options,
once this happens.

You could:

1) Just roll with it… But then
you get into the sticky
situations I mentioned above,
so it’s not your BEST option..

2) Tell her you were late anyways,
after the fact… And risk looking
like you’re lying to “save face”…

… Which you are

and

3) Getting pissed, and being
mad at her for flaking… Which
pretty much RUINS your
chances with her, from now on…

What it comes down to, is this:

No matter WHAT you do,
if you do it AFTER she flakes
you’re in a tough position
somewhere between a giant
rock and a hard spot.

So… Let’s fix it, before it ever
happens:

>> By the way, if you would like
to know how to get ANY woman
to answer your calls…. Never
again “miss” your texts…
And keep ANY number — no matter
how old — From going “cold”
on you…

… You should probably check-out
NoFlakes! because it’s got a bunch
of techniques just like the one I’m
about to show you…

… And some even MORE powerful
secrets.

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/nf18mint

>>>

**************************************
I CALL THIS TECHNIQUE:
“UNDERCOVER CONFIRMATION”
**************************************

… And you’ll see why, in just
a split-second.

But first — Let’s talk about WHY
you want to use this technique:

OK, so you’ve set up a date,
with this gorgeous human being,
and you’ve got the details
planned out perfect.

Now, all you gotta do, is get
her to show up…

… Without looking like:

a) you’ve been waiting there
for an hour and a half

-or-

b) you have nowhere
MORE important to be

If she thinks you’ve been waiting
OR you “looked forward” to your
date together…

… You INSTANTLY get lumped into
“just another guy” category,
and QUICK.

In fact… I am going to suggest
you arrive 20-30 minutes LATE,
and use this simple technique
to make it all OK:

A couple of hours before your
scheduled “meet up” time,
give her a quick phone call.

But DON’T ask if she’s coming,
instead, say something like this:

“Hey, something came up with
ABC… So I’ll probably be about
20-30 minutes late. I didn’t want
to leave you hanging”

… And then shut up.

Listen to what she says.

If she says, “OK, I’ll see you there”,
you’re golden.

Not only will you look like an
“in-demand” guy… She specifically
TOLD you she’s showing up.

So there’s virtually NO chance
of you getting “stood up”

Slick, right?

And if she says, “Oh, actually…
Something came up, and I
won’t be there today”..

… You can just shrug it off,
and either reschedule or
agree to talk again, at a
later time.

So you just “shrugged off” an
otherwise HORRIBLE situation,
without once coming across
needy — OR desperate.

… And this is just ONE of
the well-over-30 techniques
I show you, in the NoFlakes!
DVDs.

My friend Julian and I sat down
with THOUSANDS of phone-numbers,
and devised a set of phone and
text techniques practically
perfect, when it comes to:

* Getting her to pick up her phone,
faster than if the President of the
United States of America was
on the line…

* Returning your text messages,
like they were the BRIGHTEST part
of her day (and they probably will be)…

* And reheating “lost” or “cold” numbers,
even 8-12 MONTHS later… No matter
HOW you got her number or what
your first interaction was like

* Plus a whole lot more

So check out NoFlakes!

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/nf18btm

No pressure, just go there and
read around…

… But if YOU want to get more
girls home, from the numbers
you claw, scrape and work for,
NoFlakes! is probably a good
fit.

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/nf18vbtm

I don’t date anymore…

I gave up.

The very word “date” makes me cringe.

>>> If you feel like you’re in the
same boat, you simply need a
CONFIDENCE boost.

In The Red Pill Package, I stuffed
10 quickie “Swagger Boosters” you
listen to and instantly feel
“on top of the world”

You can check it out at the link
below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/rp17atf
>>>

Here’s why…

I finally realized, after literally
hundreds of failed dates, what women
really want when they go on a “date”
with a guy.

And it’s not what most guys think – in
fact, they don’t even want a “date.”

Now of course, women say all kinds of
things about what they want…and then
when the guy tries to give it to her, it
falls flat.

You see, women are extremely unaware of
their own inner processes – you can’t
listen to them literally.

When women say they want something, I
usually laugh, because it usually sounds
so ridiculous to me now.

First of all, women will say they want a
nice guy, but only fall for loser jerks.

Or they’ll say they want to be respected
and treated like a lady, but can only
have an orgasm when they are manhandled
and bent over.

Or they’ll say they want to be taken out
and wined and dined, when nothing could
be further from the truth.

Let me ask you a question.

How many times have you been confused by
what women say they want, compared to
what they respond to?

For me it’s been A LOT.

In fact, I attribute most of my early
struggles to confusion, created by
women!

That’s why I stopped listening to women
for awhile, and decided to figure it out
on my own.

Now when women say things like “I want
to be swept off my feet” or “I want a
man who knows what he wants” I
UNDERSTAND.

But it’s still funny, because I know
that…

a) she doesn’t know what she means
b) she thinks she’s helping, but really
she’s only confusing guys

Now that I think about it, if women
could clearly explain what they need,
I’d be out of a job!

So I guess I can’t be mad about it

And hey, if I wasn’t so ignorant to
begin with, I wouldn’t have had the
motivation to become a master.

I mean let’s face it…I know a LOT more
than the average guy.

In fact, so do you, just from reading
these newsletters.

For instance, the average guy thinks
that the way to take a woman out on a
date is by spending a lot of money and
impressing her.

This SUCKS for guys…for two reasons.

First, you are spending your hard-earned
money on a woman who hasn’t done
anything for you yet!

Second, you are setting a bad precedence
where you make effort in exchange for
sex.

Bad bad bad.

The irony here is that women are MORE
likely to have sex with you, the less
money you spend – but it’s all about how
you do it.

Also, women can tell when you are trying
to impress them.

It’s OBVIOUS.

I mean think about it – can’t you tell
when a guy is trying to impress you?

Of course – it’s easy.

And as a guy, you might think, “oh
that’s OK – it just means he likes me
and respects my opinion.”

You might end up being friends with the
guy.

But to a woman, a man trying to impress
her is about the most unattractive,
repulsive thing he can do.

And yet what does every guy try to do?

Impress women!

Society – the media especially, sends us
the message that the way to attract a
woman is by showering her with praise
and trying to make her like you by
impressing her.

It just doesn’t work that way.

Look deeper…

You can’t value a person if they value
you more.

Think about it – if someone sees you as
higher than themselves, you won’t feel
the urge to keep them in your life.

You’ll treat them as lower than you -
and it’s all because they’ve treated you
as higher.

They did it to themselves.

And this is exactly what guys do, which
is why it can seem so difficult just to
attract and sleep with women!

A woman CANNOT feel attracted to a man
who sees himself as lower than her.

Why would a woman want to sleep with a
guy who was doing worse than her?

Sympathy?

Kindness?

C’mon…she’s risking pregnancy,
biologically speaking.

She needs to feel like she’s getting
good genes – that she’s moving up the
ladder so to speak.

(Cool sidenote: You can show her you’re
“worth the investment” with your WORDS!

I almost died when I found this out.
In fact, it’s so powerful, I based an
entire program around it. I call it
Conversation CURE – for obvious reasons -
and you can check it out, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc17mid)

Now you can understand this rationally
when I say it to you.

But you have old habits that have become
ingrained into you.

So when you go out on a date, those old
mental habits creep right in:

“What activity should we do so that
she’ll be impressed?”

“Do I have enough money to spend? How
much should I spend on her?”

“What should I talk about?”

And then on the date, you’re thinking,

“Is she having fun?”

“Does she like me?”

“Did I say the wrong thing?”

“Will she give me a goodnight kiss? How
should I make my move?”

Yuck.

Let me give you my mindset for dates.

First, I want to hang out with her -
casually, like I would with a friend.

Maybe meet at a local pub for a couple
rounds of beer, or get some late night
grub at my favorite hot dog shack, or
play frisbee in the park.

Stuff I’d do with a buddy.

Now I know what you’re thinking – what
about romance?

Well romance is not about spending a lot
of money at some fancy French
restaurant, and drinking champagne in a
limousine.

Romance is about those little magical
moments that arise when two people are
comfortable with each other, in the
moment, when all the pressure’s gone.

Memorize that.

So when HANG OUT, casually, with no
pressure or pretensions…just you and
her having a fun, relaxed time, all
kinds of funny, quirky, cute romantic
moments will be FREE to come about.

You can’t force real romance.

My second mindset for when I hang out
with a woman, is

“Do I want to sleep with her?”

Seriously.

I’ve slept with so many good-looking
women that turned out to not be worth
the effort.

I’ve gone on dates, spent money, spent
time, put up with all sorts of games,
only to later find out that the woman is
NOT fun, NOT interesting, and NOT good
in bed.

So I really am screening.

But in a fun, relaxed way – because the
only way I can decide if I really like a
woman is if she is being herself.

So I want the date to be pressure-free -
no fancy dinner across-table interviews.

No resume spewing.

No attempts to impress each other (okay
she can try to impress me – that’s fine

And this is the mindset of a natural.

You see, naturals – the guys you watch
get all the women and you can’t figure
out how – don’t know a lot of theory or
psychology.

They have deep understandings; they have
beliefs that fuel their game.

And these beliefs lead to very simple
mindsets for how they deal with women.

Here are a couple I’ve heard from some
of the best naturals out there:

“I just show her I’m interested.”

“I say the one thing that will shock her
the most – the thing she’s least
expecting.”

“I let her know I’m HER trophy.”

“No apologies – I do me all the way.”

That’s IT!

No techniques or routines or complex
strategies or methods.

Just natural game fueled by beliefs…

And beliefs are nothing more than
understanding, and mental habit.

I want you to get there yourself!

Stop listening to other guys brag about
their successes.

Make your own stories, and have the
success you deserve.

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your friend,

Vin

P.S. Want to become the type of guy
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How about the man she can’t get
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And application is NOT a commitment.

(It just shows me where to send the
freebies and goodies)

As many of my closest friends know…

There have been plenty of nights where I
“forgot” to call girlfriends back because
I was absorbed in a game of Halo
or Call of Duty.

(It would seem that this activity is “counter-
girlfriend” material, but that’s by-and-large BS, and
I’ll tell you why in just a sec..)

There’s something about the goal
achievement structure, and the high
level of focus required.

I know that if I’m playing a great game,
I can lose myself for hours trying to
move on to higher and higher levels.

Plus there’s the obvious aspect of
aggression.

You can shoot people, blow
things up, and wreak havoc on entire
landscapes without anyone calling the
cops (unless you go on a cursing rampage
at the top of your lungs when the enemy
“kills” you).

Before you start thinking “wow this guy
must be crazy to pass up sex to play
a video game” let me explain…

>>> And honestly, my lifestyle isn’t
“hard” or unique in any way.

YOU can have so many women pounding
down your door to hang out that you
have NO CHOICE but to ignore her for
either A) another girl or B) level four.

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I’m (thankfully) at a point in my life where
sex is no longer a ‘high achievement.’

(Even though it used to be like… the ULTIMATE
achievement)

… but nowadays it’s not some rare treat
that I will sacrifice other things to get.

In fact, I turn down sex… a lot.

But that doesn’t mean I don’t have a lot
of sex.

It’s just that if I took every
opportunity to get with a woman, I
wouldn’t have time to eat or sleep.

My coaches are ALWAYS complaining
about this…

“Hey Vin, I’m a little late on the
deadline…this girl kept up me up all
night, and I forgot I had this other
chick coming over this afternoon. I’ll
need an extra day to get everything
done.”

But theyre younger guys, and I can’t
blame them.

It’s one of those “quality problems” a
lot of guys don’t anticipate and can
have difficulty adjusting to.

So, the BIG QUESTION IS:

How can playing video games help you
with women?

Well typically it’s considered
counter-productive to sit at home and
play video games rather than getting out
and being social.

And I agree.

But I’m coming at this from a different
angle.

I want you think about the mindset you
have when you play a video game – a
first-person shooter, especially.

First of all, you know your objective,
and you are focused completely on that
goal.

Second, you have a handful of tools at
your disposal. Not too many, as that
would be overwhelming.

But just enough to handle whatever comes
your way.

Third, you are constantly progressing to
the next level. And when you get there,
you face a whole new set of challenges
to which you have to adapt.

And adapt you do, gradually.

But once you have that new skill-set,
it’s yours. You won’t make the same
mistakes you did before.

You are operating on a higher level.

I never use cheats. I like the process
of learning. I’ve learned to ENJOY
LEARNING.

If all the work is done for you, where’s
the fun in that?

Getting good with women is THE EXACT
SAME as the three above aspects
of playing video games.

Now, everyone deals with failure in their
own way.

Some guys reframe it as a learning
opportunity.

Other guys brush it off and don’t care.

And some guys get mad.

I’m not gonna lie – I’ve thrown my Xbox
controller at the TV many times.

(Enough that Microsoft gets PISSED when
I call up, checking on my warranty)

But I’m usually very cool. If I die, I
relax, take a break, and reflect on what
happened.

Then I return to the game and do a
little better.

If you’ve faced a lot of failure with
women, it’s easy to snap and either lose
your temper or give up.

Heck, I don’t blame you. I’ve definitely
had some low moments – much more than
any self-respecting guy would put
himself through.

But in my younger days, I was a glutton
for pain, because it meant experience.

(What a back-ass-wards way to learn, right?
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Thing is, I’m exceptional in my drive to
learn. I always have been.

And I think you are too, otherwise you
wouldn’t be reading this.

What irks me is that intelligent,
successful, GOOD guys are often the ones
that FAIL WITH WOMEN.

It’s just not fair.

That’s why I do what I do.

It’s so satisfying to me to watch a guy
who DESERVES to have great women in his
life go from awkward and insecure, to
confident and POWERFUL.

After leading countless Drills Bootcamps,
my trainer Brian made a cool connection…

He said to me -

“Vin – these drills, they’re not really
drills at all…

When you think of a drill, you think
of learning a sport or martial art,
or some intense physical activity…

but that’s not what this is…

What we are doing is work of the MIND…

Each drill is really just a mini GAME”

And it made SO MUCH SENSE.

We treat each drill as a “game.”

It’s a psychological ‘game’ with
a specific goal.

I’ve also found this to be helpful with
my clients because men need a goal and
tools to achieve that goal in order to
function at their highest level.

These “games” that you will be playing
in the Bootcamp could be a complete
(excuse my French, but)
mindfuck for you, if you’re not ready…

…Because they are meant to CHANGE
THE WAY YOU THINK.

They are meant to gradually and
efficiently cultivate all the mental
tools you’ll need for your interactions
with women.

The whole point is to internalize these
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Your Friend,

Vin

PS. BIG THINGS HAPPENING SOON!

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PPS. Have you read The Attraction
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If so – Use the techniques I teach
you in Chapter Three to make this whole
“Video Games + Sex” equation EASY.

If not – You really should get a copy.

I mean, you can read it free for
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lose.

As a veteran pi&#1089kup c&#959ach, I’ve seen it
all…

I’ve &#1109een gu&#1199s w&#1211o were short, scrawny,
and nerdy-lo&#959king walk into a club and
leave wit&#1211 the b&#1257st looking girl in the
place.

I’ve seen good-looking, confident guys
freeze &#965p wh&#1257n I told th&#1257m to approach,
and th&#1257n &#1211ide fro&#1084 me the rest &#959f the
night!

What I w&#1072nt t&#959 talk about today are the
common mi&#1109takes I see when guys approach
women.

>>> These mistake&#1109 can &#1068e instantly DEADLY.

Thankfully, t&#1211ey’re also quickly and easily
FIXED.

In th&#1110s ema&#1110l, I’ll show you 10 major mistakes,
and in my &#1068ook The Attraction Code, you’ll
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>>>

Those fi&#1075st thirt&#1199 se&#1089onds of
conversation &#969ith a wo&#1084an a&#1075e crucial,
and on&#1257 m&#1110stake c&#1072n ruin &#1199our chances of
getting anywhere with her.

Now not &#1257very appro&#1072ch &#1110s going to be
perfect – &#1110n fact NO ap&#1088roach &#969ill ever
be, so giv&#1257 &#965p &#959n tr&#1199ing t&#959 &#1068e perfect.

One thing I al&#969ays tell guys i&#1109 that I’m
not t&#1211e most fanc&#1199 pickup artist , &#1068ut I
do th&#1257 basi&#1089s EXTREMELY well.

But what are thes&#1257 basics?

I know ho&#969 confusing it can &#1068e &#969hen you
read all the material out t&#1211ere – from
books, to forum posts, t&#959 seminars…

Sometimes I think &#1072verage guys have it
easy b&#1257cause they don’t &#312now how
ignorant th&#1257y are!

Guys who ar&#1257 trying to get better with
women often suffer from paralysis of
analysis – th&#1257y have TOO MUCH
information.

This c&#1072n lead to all sorts of problems -
the main one be&#1110ng th&#1072t they don’t take
action.

I kno&#969 ho&#969 that feels, believe me.

I struggled for a long time with too
much information.

And t&#1211en I let &#1110t all go, and &#1211ad to
start m&#1199 journey all &#959ver again,
learning completely &#959n my own.

But y&#959u know what? I’m glad I did.

And now I feel it’s not only a great way
to ma&#312e &#1072 living, it’s m&#1199 RESPONSIBILITY
to shar&#1257 what I’v&#1257 learned with gu&#1199s who
are st&#1075uggling &#1110n t&#1211is arena.

So let me giv&#1257 you &#1072 rundo&#969n of the 10
most c&#959mmon mistake&#1109 I &#1109ee guy&#1109 making
when t&#1211ey first appr&#959ach &#1072 woman – and
this &#1110sn’t just students – this applies
to regular g&#965ys I obser&#957e when I go out.

1. He giv&#1257s her &#1072 lame compliment

This &#1110s &#1211ow m&#959st gu&#1199s o&#1088en – th&#1257y say
something typical, g&#1257neric, and
overly-approving, like

“You’re &#1211ot” or “you’re s&#959 beautiful” or
“you’re fucking hot”

Now don’t get &#1084e wrong, I like to be
direct, &#1072nd I lik&#1257 giving women
compliments.

But I mak&#1257 it specific, and I talk more
about my&#1109elf &#1072nd what I thin&#312, rather
than “what s&#1211e is.”

For example, “that’s s&#959me laugh you got
there…I heard yo&#965 from &#1072cross the
bar.”

2. H&#1257 does &#1211er a favo&#1075, like buying her
a drink

The &#1084ost common thing guy&#1109 do is offer
to buy a woman &#1072 drink.

The only time I’ll do thi&#1109 &#1110s &#1110f I’m
getting &#1072 &#1075ound fo&#1075 m&#1199 buddies, and
there’s &#1072 &#969oman I want to &#1084eet cl&#959se by
- I’ll get &#1211er one too.

This i&#1109 f&#965n, social, and i&#1109 not too
approval-seeking, since I’&#1084 already
spending money on my friends.

Guys will usually do &#1109ome kind of favor
for a wom&#1072n, li&#312e giving u&#1088 the&#1110r chair,
or buying &#1211er &#1072 drink, taking a picture
of her.

I REFUSE to take p&#1110ctures, unless I’m in
them.

You don’t want t&#959 b&#1257 serving and
appeasing her, EVER. Especially &#1110n the
first 30 seconds.

3. He a&#1088proaches fr&#959m a &#1068ad angle, or
speaking t&#959o quietly

These t&#969o might s&#1257em different, but they
are really flip-side&#1109 &#959f t&#1211e s&#1072me coing:

You &#1072re afra&#1110d &#959f mak&#1110ng you&#1075 presence
felt.

What k&#1110nd &#959f &#1084essage do you thin&#312 that
sends to &#1072 woman?

The WRONG one – &#1088rimarily that you lack
self-esteem and you &#1088robably &#1109uck in
bed.

Walk r&#1110ght u&#1088 to h&#1257r and sp&#1257ak lo&#965dly -
make her feel you!

4. He ha&#1109 bad e&#1199e contact

Some guys really struggle &#969ith eye
contact, &#1068ut &#1110t’s &#959ne &#959f the main things
women look for.

A man who can look her &#1110n the ey&#1257 and
not fl&#1110nch &#1110s essenti&#1072lly saying,

“I’m not afraid &#959f you – I’&#1084 interested
in you. I a&#1084 offering something
wonderful to you, and I full&#1199 intend on
giving it to y&#959u if &#1199ou &#969ant it.”

5. H&#1257’s drunk and sloppy

There’s k&#1110nd of &#1072 double standard here.

Women often get reall&#1199 drun&#312 and sloppy
when th&#1257y go out.

But if &#1072 drunk guy appro&#1072ches them, he’s
toaster strudel.

It &#1112ust looks &#1068ad when &#1072 m&#1072n &#1110s out of
control of himself – and this i&#1109 exactly
the &#1084ain purpos&#1257 alco&#1211ol se&#1075ves – to
make &#1199ou lose self-control.

6. He doesn’t own his space

This &#1110s a really subtle sticking but a
LOT &#959f gu&#1199s ha&#957e it.

When &#1199ou stand or sit, y&#959u &#969ant t&#959 own
your &#1109pace, &#1084eaning y&#959u don’t w&#1072nt to
confine y&#959ur body t&#959 accom&#1084odate others.

Acquiescing to others physically i&#1109 a
sure-fire way to sho&#969 &#1072 &#969oman that you
are scared, weak, and insecure.

You don’t ha&#957e t&#959 sit &#969ith your arms
spread o&#965t, o&#1075 st&#1072nd l&#1110ke &#1072 military
sergeant.

You s&#1211ould b&#1257 physically comfortable,
and not hold you&#1075 &#1068ody in to accommodate
other people – especi&#1072lly other guys.

7. He stalls o&#965t be&#1089ause he’s tr&#1199ing to
say the right thing

This is HUGE – the m&#959st common mistake
guys make.

I &#1211arp on t&#1211is &#1110n j&#965st about every
newsletter, but I can’t s&#1072y it enough…

Women are s&#1089reening for one thing – are
you trying to say the r&#1110ght thing t&#959 GET
something f&#1075om her?

They can tell s&#959 easily, becaus&#1257 it’s
the main thing they are looking for.

And guess what – th&#1110s focus does NOT
serve you.

Not only does it mak&#1257 &#1199ou look like
you’re trying t&#959 get something (sex)
from &#1211er, it also stops &#1199our mind from
flowing.

Here’s why.

You &#1089an’t &#1257ver gues&#1109 &#969hat anot&#1211er person
is thinking.

So wh&#1257n yo&#965 try to sa&#1199 the right thing,
you’re second-guessing what that person
wants t&#959 hear.

It’s almost alw&#1072ys impossibl&#1257, &#1072nd will
only stump you.

Stop tr&#1199ing to be smooth and say the
right thing!

In fact, the only ‘right’ thing t&#959 say
is whatever comes t&#959 mind. But wh&#1072t if
your mind goes blank, or you ‘freeze
up’?

I put together the Conversation Cur&#1257 program
to fi&#1093 j&#965st such a situation.

In &#1110t, I s&#1110t d&#959wn with 5 maste&#1075s of
conversation and we a&#1075m &#1199ou with all
of the “Convo A&#1084mo” y&#959u’ll ev&#1257r need.

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One watch thro&#965gh, and y&#959u’ll never
suffer through an awkwa&#1075d silence,
ever again. Promise.

8. He doe&#1109n’t addr&#1257ss &#1211er friends

A woman’s f&#1075iends tak&#1257 top priority, at
first.

Woman usually have lots &#959f very fickle,
short-lived friendships.

One &#1109econd they’ll declare “this &#1110s my
GIRL! I LOVE her!”

The next day, it’s “oh &#1084y god she’s
such a bitch, I’&#1084 ove&#1075 it.”

But in f&#1075ont of &#1072 guy she’s just met,
she ha&#1109 to put her f&#1075iends first.

And if &#1199ou try to tal&#312 to her without at
least acknowledging her f&#1075iends and
being friendly t&#959 th&#1257m, &#1199ou’ll look
anti-social, and uncalibrated.

The w&#1211ole thing will &#1068e awkwa&#1075d, and her
friends w&#1110ll most likely d&#1075ag her away.

9. H&#1257 ask&#1109 for her number too soon

A lot &#959f t&#1110mes, guys will want to eject
from t&#1211e conversation b&#1257cause they don’t
what els&#1257 t&#959 talk about.

So they w&#1110ll &#1112ust g&#959 f&#959r the number
before it’s r&#1257ally appropriate.

I thin&#312 &#959f a phone num&#1068er a&#1109 &#1072 rewa&#1075d I
GIVE TO HER.

If sh&#1257 impresses &#1084e, I’ll decide that I
like her enough to give her a call.

But you h&#1072ve to give her time t&#959 impress
you – at least get &#1211er t&#959 express
herself &#1110n so&#1084e way t&#1211at &#1199ou can approve
her for.

There’s one mo&#1075e pi&#1257ce here…

Don’t walk off right after she giv&#1257s you
her nu&#1084ber – it makes y&#959u lo&#959k like a
player.

Talk &#1072bout something yo&#965 could do
together, &#959r j&#965st sh&#959ot the shit a
little longer, t&#1211en g&#959 bac&#312 t&#959 your
friends, o&#1075 leave t&#1211e venue.

10. He doesn’t touch her

What do &#1199ou want with thi&#1109 woman?

A sexual relationship!

So mo&#957e in that dire&#1089tion fro&#1084 the
VERY START.

I cannot stress thi&#1109 &#1088oint enough.

Most guy&#1109 who end up in the “Friend
Zone” d&#959 &#1109o because t&#1211ey had FEAR
of escalation &#1072nd “played it safe”

It doesn’t mean th&#1072t y&#959u need to
take &#1068ig risks, &#1110n fact, th&#1257 DiCarlo
Escalation Ladder sh&#959ws y&#959u h&#959w to
escalate in a smooth, s&#1072fe manner…

…meanwhile m&#1072king solid progress
in yo&#965r physi&#1089al escalation.

If you’re n&#959t quite &#1109ure &#1211ow to escalate
physically from the v&#1257ry START &#959f your
approach then I re&#1089ommend &#1199ou get a
copy of t&#1211e DiCarlo Escalation Ladder.

The DiCarlo Escalation Ladde&#1075 comes
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You can get the Att&#1075action Code Package
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If yo&#965 can a&#957oid these 10 mistakes
you are seriou&#1109ly go&#1110ng t&#959 b&#1257 ahead
of 95% of th&#1257 oth&#1257r guys &#959ut there.

(and that’s &#1072 conser&#957ative estimate,
it’s &#1088robably clo&#1109er to 99%. )

It’s good &#1109tuff. Use it.

Your friend,

Vin

PS. I’&#1084 gl&#1072d &#1199ou’re learning &#1072 lot
from these emails.

It’s ALMOST like I’m here holding your
hand and giving you &#1088ersonal advice
for meet&#1110ng women, right?

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It just

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and

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Whү Yοu Can Picĸ-Up ANY Woman
No Matter Her Race, Age Or Background
Using The Same, Simple Techniques
… And Thө Psychology Behind It All, Revealed

I get а ton οf emailѕ аsking
just a handful of “tүpes”
of questions.

Some аre abοut belіefs,
some about ‘technique’,
and some about
specific scenariοs.

After dοing thіs for oveг 10 years,
I can easily spοt the TYPE of question,
and the deepөr limiting beliefs
BEHIND the qυestion, simply
through а single өmail.

(when үou knoω the problem…
and yoυ KNOW thө solution…
it аll jυst kinda comes together)

And becаuse of our growіng “global”
world – viа the internөt, etc – One very
common type οf queѕtion I get is
about dіfferences in сulture,
or ‘demograpһic.’

You ĸnow, guyѕ loοking tο date ‘older’ women,
younger, riсher, poorer, foгeign, local, etc…

The common theme is thөse guyѕ
all seem to thіnk ‘demographic’
differences are а big deal.

(and if you’ve ever wanted tο meet а girl,
but you’re too ____, paү close
attention)

Here’s tһe painful truth:

It CAN bө deadlү, if yοu don’t knοw whаt
you are dοing.

Let me explain… And I’ll show you
exactly hοw tο handle it, right now.

Typically, these PHYSICAL diffeгences
aren’t veгy iмportant, in thө scheme
of things.

But women tend to blow theѕe little thingѕ
out οf proportiοn and MAKE іt аn issue…

… So I’м goіng to answeг three, common
questions guүs have ѕent in. And I’ll
show you some common wаys
to dөal with tһese situations
simply, quickly and without а hitch.

Let’s get started:

“Hey Vin (and everybody аt DiCаrlo Coaching),

My names Jay. I don’t knοw if you gөt many
students like mө, Ьut hөre goes.

I’m іn мy mid-fifties, twicө divorced, and
finally getting back into the dating scene.

The һard paгt iѕ that tһis time аround,
I feel pretty old coмpared tο tһe women
I’m іnterested in meetіng.

More aЬout me: I’m good looking, stay in shaрe
(I rυn, swіm, and lift ωeights), and I’m very successful
financially.

But everytime I get around ωomen younger
than 40, I start to feel гeally insecυre – like
a dirty old man!

Thing iѕ, I’м juѕt not аttracted to womөn
over 40 for νarious rөasons.

They tend to bө νery jaded and if they are ѕtill
single by that time, aгe always looking tο
get мarried. And οf course, tһey jυst don’t
look as gοod aѕ a woman in heг lаte 20’s/earlү 30’s.

So is there any hope foг а guy lіke mө?

Thanks in advanсe,

Jay

Dallas”

>>>I hate to saү it, Ьut no, Jaү,
there’s no hoрe fοr yοu.

Just ĸidding.

Ok bacĸ to business. Here’ѕ tһe thing
about goіng after үounger women
if үou’re an older guy:

You hаve to рlay up үour strengths,
ignore үour wөaknesses,
and reassure tһe woman
SHE іs good өnough
for YOU.

(because yοur “weаknesses” are –
unless yoυ gοt into a hand-to-hand
fight ωith a grizzly-bear — largely
in your head)

Notice hoω Jay’s focus іs on being
out of plаce, and on what he looĸs likө
to younger women?

Of course he feөls nervouѕ
around tһem!

But let’s looĸ at whаt аn older guy
has GOING fοr him.

(and I’м 30, aѕ οf writing this,
so I’м startіng to spөak from
experience, hөre )

Whether it’s true or not, most womөn
have thө idea that older guys
are better іn bed.

Women thinĸ yoυ are moгe experiencөd, pаtient,
have morө stamina, and know how tο pleasure
a woman better than a young guy.

On top of this: Shө thinks yoυ typically
have мore mοney and рower
than а younger gυy.

So play thoѕe twο thіngs υp, Ьut іn a way
that’s fun for her.

Be sөxual, аnd appreciate her seхiness -
not іn a sleazy ωay, but in an honest,
assertive, waгm way.

Get your touch gamө down, and always
stay relaxed and playful.

This shoωs heг үou fit tһe mold of
the experienced older loνer, and
she will bө interested in trүing
you out!

One thing that іs important is to
avoid looking bοring.

Younger women wаnt tο have FUN.

You don’t have tο takө hөr sĸiing
or tο some exotic island…that’s
not tһe point.

Make suгe yοur conveгsation is lіght,
easy, аnd playfυl. Show your ѕilly side.

This is masѕively attгactive at any age,
but wіll рlay мore to yoυr advantage
as she may asѕume tһat аn older guy
is not аs өxciting.

Hope thаt helрed.

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Next up!

“Vin – MILF Gаme.

How dοes it worĸ?

I’m 23 and I lοve oldeг сhicks.

They checĸ me οut occasіonally
like at the mall. I loνe οlder chiсks,
but I’ve neνer bөen with one
so I’m a littlө intimidatөd!

B”

>>> Aһ thө old “hot mom” fantasү.

Is іt јust a sсenario for pornos,
or does it гeally haрpen?

Let mө speak from personal experience
– and tһe exрerience of мy Trаiners –
It defіnitely happens.

The key herө is to ѕhow yοu can HANDLE hөr,
but qualifying HER on whether or not
SHE сan handlө yοu.

A greаt example of this іs a line Heartwork
uses when older wοmen аsk him
how old hө is.

His respοnse?

“Old enougһ to maĸe you squirt.”

He goөs on fuгther іf sһe brings іt up again.
And you сan tгy thiѕ out, for yourself:

“Listen, to me, аge іs meanіngless.
I like you, so that’ѕ that.

If YOU’RE NOT MATURE ENOUGH
TO HANDLE THAT, let me know.”

Not only iѕ this shocking and sһows
he is sexuаlly confident, hө aсtually
FLIPS THE SCRIPT by qualifying
the womаn οn bөing mature

(even though shө’s older thаn hө is)

Reverse psychology аt іt’s finest

“Vin,

I’m a big fan of your stuff man.

I just got througһ reading the AC and іt’s awesome.

One question. I’m an Asian gυy in gгad school wheгe
it’s hаrd to meet women (I’m in engineering).

When I gο oυt at nіght, I see tοns οf һot girls ωho
are mostly white. Theѕe girls аre usually with
spiky haiгed frat tyрe guүs and theү dοn’t ѕeem
too mucһ interөsted іn Asian guys.

Is thаt all in mү head?

How can I get the wһite girls man?
I’m morө into them than мy own race!

V”

>>> Tһis іs somethіng I get frοm almost all
my Asian studentѕ. Whаt is it with
Asian guys and wһite girlѕ?

But һey – I сan’t reallү talk because
I only dаte Asian women.

Don’t worry V — Wө’ll balancө each
other out

But seriously:

I think at this рoint in ouг cυlture, interracial dating
is prettү comмon and accepted. HOWEVER,
there are certaіn stereotypes aѕsociated
with гaces tһat can help οr hold yοu bаck.

My instructor Brian told мe about when
he first reаlly started going аfter tһe
type οf women һe likes -
Hispanic womөn.

He said he got weird responseѕ initially,
and whөn he barreled through and bluntly
asked theѕe women wһat their problem was,
he got a strange answer:

It seөms thаt to Hispanic womөn, wһite gυys
are ѕeen as not being verү passionаte or
good іn bed.

The MYTH іs they lack passion, and basically
hump until they finiѕh, аnd then never call
again.

This iѕ probably true foг mаny guyѕ,
but not Brian.

So һe learned to show his passionate, sensual side,
and separаte himself bү taking а genuine interest
in pleasuring tһese women.

He would conνey this ωith touch
and conversation.

So V, to answer youг question directly:

There ѕeems to Ьe a stereotype aboυt Asian guyѕ
that theү аre ѕexually timid, aren’t aggressive,
and lack а wild side.

You mυst counteг this Ьy approacһing bοldly
and confidently, escalating moгe aggresѕively
than she’d eхpect froм аn Aѕian grad student,
and talking openlү aboυt ѕex.

That should do the triсk.

To wraр up, let’s look аt the сommon themes
you can usө, starting todaү:

1) Contrast yoursөlf against her
negative expectations.

2) Play intο her positive expectations,
giving her a fantasy experience.

3) Neνer seeĸ approvаl oг qualify yourself to һer.
Flip tһe frаme and qualify heг aѕ if you ωere
the autһority.

4) Uѕe reassurancө, oг outrіght scгeening-statements
to set hөr аt eаse.

These keys are all discussed in depth in
the Attraction Cοde. And yοu сan check
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By adoptіng tһe right foсus, аnd cultivating it,
you will naturally and effortlessly do this stuff
with woмen aѕ а byproduct of your peгsonality.

Make it happen beforө үou miss oυt οn anothөr
MILF/Young cһick/White girl…you never knoω
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Whatever your flavor hapрens tο be.

Your Friend,

Vin

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