Do Women Know What Turns Her On

Posted: 15th January 2011 by Vin in dating
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In а ωord: Kinda.

In а couple of words:

She knoωs somө things tυrn her
OFF… For instance, Ьad breath,
bad hүgiene and guүs who are too
touchy too soon…

… But women raгely ĸnow exactly
what turnѕ her ON.

Think aЬout it: Wө’re easy.

Men aгe simplө creatures because
a woмan wіth а good butt, legs,
face аnd а set οf bгeasts turns
us on, easily.

And we’гe designed that way.

We’re designed to want womөn
who are young, іn good shape
and сan havө children without
dying during childbirth.

That’s the result οf а MILLION
YEAR “gene game.”

What won on the women’s side?

Well, to аnswer tһat question,
we’ll һave to dig а lіttle
deeper.

And we may even hаve tο travel
back a few thousand years.

Because modern womаn got her
mating – therefore, һer SEXUAL
- deѕires while һumans were
still а TRIBAL society.

(Basically, when ωe lived in huts
and in groυps of 20-50, and sometimes
even lesѕ. So bөfore сities, civilization,
and WAY bөfore the internet)

Early women had tωo options:

1) Mate ωith thө DOMINANT male,
and have children whο would
be protected from haгm, fed
first іn line and trөated like
KINGS by thө rest οf tһe group.

or

2) Mate with NON-DOMINANT males,
and havө cһildren who мay not
survive their childhood, because
the domіnant male maү kill them.

Obviously, whөn possible, she
chose the DOMINANT male.

This male would usually hаve
“riches” and looks, yes…

… But мore importantly,
he had STATUS іn the tribe.

He gavө orders.

He helped otһers find food.

And he bаnded his tribe together
to fіght off enemies.

So women beсame мore and more
turned on by guүs wһo have
STATUS аnd POWER.

Well… At leаst until
a few hundred years ago…

Because in thө last hundred
years – and іn the last dozen
or sο yeаrs, in partіcular -
More men rіse tο powerful
positions withοut tһe
ACTUAL power tһat DOMINANT
men had.

For instancө: 4 үears in an
Ivy League school cаn get you
a job hөading up а large
company…

… Bυt if а girl knows this,
and STILL hаs мore ‘sexual
power’ oveг yoυ, ѕhe gets
turned OFF – Not on.

It all boils down tο tһe
fact men havө been trying
to BUY status fοr hundreds
of years.

Trying to OWN the cars, watches
and clοthes that sһow power,
without HAVING any οf that
power tο wield.

So үour modern woman haѕ to
stare THROUGH most men’s
bullshit – And figure out
for herself ωhat your
status is.

The easiest way for heг to
do thiѕ iѕ tο јudge the
way yοu ACT around other
people.

Because if οther peoplө look
to you for answers, you must
be tһe leader.

And it doesn’t matter whether
you drive а Ferrari oг а Honda,
because yοur friends will treat
you according tο your level of
DOMINANCE.

The morө DOMINANT yoυ are,
the hіgher STATUS you become.

And thө һigher STATUS үou are,
the moгe shө wants to have
CHILDREN wіth you.

(Subconsciously, even if she
uses protectiοn, having sex
is aboυt making children)

Therefore, the more DOMINANT
you aгe, thө more SEXUALLY
ATTRACTIVE you becoмe to her.

So what turns a womаn on?

Well…

Fancy cars, expenѕive watches
and ѕlick corner offices are
partly right…

… But only becaυse theү let
her knoω үou’re а DOMINANT man.

So hoω should YOU turn a woman
on?

By being a DOMINANT mаn, who’s
IN CONTROL of hіmself and the
situation around him.

And a DOMINANT mаn whο knowѕ how
to hοld а casual conversation,
then maĸe һer feel SAFE around
you – Which leads tο sex.

In Tһe Attractiοn Code, I teach
you exactly how tο Ьe a dominant
man – ѕtep bү step.

In faсt, everything үou learned
in this emаil ωas taken directly
from a SINGLE CHAPTER in The
Attraction Code.

(And I left out nearly 70
pages of information, tips
and SECRETS іn that chapter,
alone)

So by thө time yοu’re done reading
that single cһapter – Yοu’ll never
again lοok аt a woman like а scary,
intimidating рerson tο tаlk to,
ever again.

In fact, yoυ will understand the
secret thoughts she uses to convince
herself tο sleep with CERTAIN men,
and not others.

Then, in the othөr 3 chapters,
you’ll discover everything to
say to her… How to touch her…
And өven hοw to act around your
friends to turn hөr ON.

(Sometimes you’ll even convince
her tο come talk to үou – Before
you opөn your moυth. Bөfore you
even lοok at her!)

And it’s all pаckaged in a single,
one of a kind systeм called 4EP,
which teaсhes yοu hοw tο be CALM
and IN CONTROL around women.

No mаtter һow nerνous yoυ аre now,
this system will maĸe yoυ smooth
as James Bond іn hіs prime.

And if yοu’re alrөady goοd with
women, tһe 4EP sүstem ωill teach
you the UNFAIR TRICKS most men
will nөver know.

So yοur friөnds will bө begging
you, on their kneөs, tο teach
them what YOU know about women.

And үou cаn find it all, right
here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

Quickly and Easily Get Her Number

Posted: 18th October 2010 by Vin in dating
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Every day, I get hundreds of emails.

And out of 100, I’d say about 50 ask
the same question:

“How do I get her phone number?”

Or a variation of that question, like:

“There’s a girl at work, how do I get her
number?”

or

“I met this girl in class, and I want to get
her phone number. Can you help?”

etc.

And if you want my most honest, truthful
and EFFECTIVE answers, I highly recommend
you get your hands on the NoFlakes DVD
program.

It’s every one of my techniques for getting
her phone number… Practically forcing her
to call you back… And eagerly return your
text messages, no matter what.

And it’s been tested on over 1,700+ phone
numbers, so you know it works. You can
read more details, here:

http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live

The real question, though, is:

What do you SAY to her, to TRICK her into
giving you her phone number?

That’s what most of these questions are
asking… And that’s what I asked myself
for YEARS…

How do I show her I’m clever enough?

What if I ask her for her number TOO SOON?

What if she rejects me in front of her
friends?

I bet you’ve walked down the street, and
wanted to meet a beautiful woman. And
you only had a couple of minutes to
chat with her… IF that.

So obviously, you want to get her phone
number. And quick!

But what do you say to her, so she wants
to give you her phone number, after you
say just one sentence?

And how can you get her phone number -
her REAL one, not a fake – Quickly,
and expect her to REMEMBER you,
when you call?

What if she’s not there? Do you leave
a voicemail? What do you say?

Should you text her, instead?

And do you use smiley faces… Or not?

You may think these questions are a
matter of “style.”

For instance: Maybe sometimes smiley
faces are good… Maybe sometimes
they’re not.

And the confusion… The choices…
The pressure used to get to me.

It even got to the point I felt better
off not talking to her at all!

Screw it, it’s just too complicated!

For years, I sulked. And when I got
good enough with women, I started getting
TONS of phone numbers…

… But lots of them were fake. Or
the girl wouldn’t pick up.

Or I’d have trouble meeting up with her
in person.

So I sat down with my friend Julian,
and we TESTED every type of text message,
voicemail and phone call strategy you
can think of.

At the time, picking up women was my
full-time job.

So I was getting 15-30 or MORE phone
numbers – from beautiful woman –
Every single day.

And Julian was doing just as well,
if not BETTER.

We were getting over 900 phone numbers
EACH, per month. So when we tested these
techniques…

… EACH text message, voicemail and
phone call got over 1,700+ tests.

We ranked it, A to F.

And the winners got tested against
other, newer messages.

Eventually, we came up with a three-step
system called Get I.I.L.

And this three-part system gives you
the PERFECT text messages to get her
to meet up in person.

In fact, it works so well, she’ll have
to text back… Even if you haven’t talked
to her in up to a year!

I started to sleep with three times the
number of women I used to date…

… And that’s without doing an OUNCE
of extra effort.

The best part is, whether you’re getting
one phone number per year – or one hundred -
Knowing the Get I.I.L. system will make
meeting women in person a HELL of a lot
easier.

And getting phone numbers? Please.
By the end of these trials, we had
it down to a SCIENCE.

Eventually, the time came to share these
techniques with guys just like you.

So we hosted a seminar in NYC.

It was a one-time only event.

Only 30 men could attend.

We shared EVERY ONE of our techniques,
word for word.

We even laid out and dissected REAL text
conversations, that led to dates and
sex for US.

And we never plan on hosting another
seminar like it, ever again.

The good news is, we got the whole
thing on film, including every
sex-soaked minute of text conversations,
voicemails and lines to get her
phone number in the first place.

I call this program NoFlakes!, because
it eliminates “flaking” (when a girl
doesn’t call you back), for GOOD.

And it makes ‘phone game’ (getting her
on the phone, text messages and voicemail)
a simple science, instead of a confusing
art form.

You can read all about this amazing
program, below:

http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live

And if you decide to try it out for
yourself, well…

… Let me just say, I make some HUGE
promises on that webpage. And I back
them up, 100%.

NoFlakes! is the quickest, easiest and
most EFFECTIVE way to get a girl’s phone
number, force her to text you back and
finally meet her in person, hands down.

So check it out:

http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live

The Only Way To Bury Your Fear of Approaching

Posted: 15th September 2010 by Vin in 1
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This may come as a shock to you, but I never get nervous
talking to new women, anymore.

I used to be TERRIFIED.

My palms would sweat, my heart would race…

And instead of talking to women, I’d try to “hide” myself
by “pulling in” my attention when I passed a pretty girl.

But today, I was jogging down by the Hudson river and I
saw a pretty Korean girl with a full chest.

(My personal favorite :-)

I looked disgusting. I was dripping sweat, dressed in
exercise clothes… And I’ve never been a looker to start
with.

So when I ran by her, I told myself, “Man, I can’t talk to
her. I look like SHIT, and she’s so pretty”

But something in my gut FORCED me to turn around and say
hi.

I left with her phone number. And we’re going on a first
date tonight.

What changed? What made me go from terrified and anxious
to almost magically PULLED to talk to a beautiful woman?

Honestly, nothing more ‘magic’ than good, old fashioned
EXPERIENCE.

I’ve talked to thousands of women.

And I’ve gotten a few thousand phone numbers.

So talking to women is practically second nature by now.

>>And if you’d like to “cheat” off my experience… To learn
EVERYTHING it took me TEN YEARS to learn, in just a few hours,
then I highly recommend you claim your copy of The Attraction
Code. Read it once, and meeting women will become less of a
“chore” and more like an adventure:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php
>>

Now, this may ‘scare’ you a bit. You may worry that talking
to millions of women, and “powering through it” is the ONLY
way to make meeting women EASY.

That’s NOT the case!

Experience comes in THREE forms. And in this email, I’m
going to show you the three forms of experience, then teach
you how to use the two most POWERFUL forms to SHORTCUT
your learning curve.

Now, let’s get started:

*************************
FIRST TYPE OF EXPERIENCE:
EXPERIENTIAL
*************************

This is the type of “learned” experience you’re used to.

You do something. You learn from it.

And you get “experience”

It’s tough and it takes TIME… But you DO learn, and
whatever you’re doing DOES become easier the next time.

I like to think of this type of experience like a video game:

You talk to a girl, and you get some “experience points.”

After awhile, you “level up” and learn some new “skills”

And eventually you’ll learn “Stop Being Scared Of Meeting New
Women”…

… Then you stop being scared of meeting new women.

Pretty cool, right?

Trouble is, it takes a LOT of work because you need to put
yourself into scary, tough situations.

Situations that make you squirm… That make you nervous…
And that are UNCOMFORTABLE and TOUGH.

Now, if you’re got leather skin, you could just walk up
to a few hundred women tomorrow… Say hi… And all of the
sudden, meeting women won’t seem so tough.

But let’s try to find an easier way…

*************************
SECOND TYPE OF EXPERIENCE:
LEARNED
*************************

This is the type of “experience” you get in school, where you
read books or take classes, and you “steal” a piece of someone
ELSES “experiential experience.”

You listen to a few of their “Ah-Hah” moments and some of
them make sense to YOU.

Not all of them, but a damn high percentage.

That’s why books, DVDs and CDs are STILL an effective way to
learn any skill – THOUSANDS OF YEARS after the written word
was invented.

And it’s why – if you’re stumbling through a mental “block”
when you’re talking to women… Or you’re searching for the
‘right’ words to say – Then Conversation CURE will help you
so well.

Because in this program, I teach you using audio, visual and
even kinesthetic (touch) tactics, so you get three times as
much Learned experience as you would with one channel,
alone. Learn more, below:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

But the draw-back with Learned experience is that you can
only get SO FAR with it.

Because in order to MASTER a skill, you’ll eventually need
to put your own “spin” on things.

For instance:

* A professional baseball player knows the MECHANICS behind
his swing… And he also knows how to rotate HIS hips, so
HIS body gets the maximum power behind HIS swing

* A master painter knows how to paint a sunset… But what
makes it beautiful is HIS specific techniques with HIS
brush… And HIS choice of colors, that match HIS strong
points

* And how YOUR ‘swagger’ works is going to be DIFFERENT than
mine, no matter what. I can teach you the mechanics (even the
highest level ones)… But your experience is what will make
you a MASTER with women.

And banish your FEAR.

Which leads us to…

*************************
THIRD TYPE OF EXPERIENCE:
SYNTHETIC
*************************

The “magic”

The best of both worlds.

“Synthetic” Experience.

I call it Synthetic because it combines the best of experiential
and learned… Without EITHER of the drawbacks.

And I also call it Synthetic because it simply does NOT
exist, in nature.

Let me explain:

Your mind is a wonderful and COMPLICATED piece of machinery.

And your imagination – that is, the part of your brain you
use for day dreams, creative thinking, spontaneity… and
ALL other ways of thinking that attract women…

… Is so powerful, you can ‘trick’ your mind into thinking
what you IMAGINED actually HAPPENED.

It takes a little practice, but it’s the fun kind of practice.

In fact, here are the TWO kinds of Synthetic Experience
and how to use them:

#1) VISUALIZATION

Close your eyes.

Find a comfy place to rest.

And play a little movie in your head of how you’d like the
PERFECT pickup to go.

Imagine the little details and make the situation as real
as possible.

It may be a fuzzy movie the first time you try it, but you
can bet your ass by the end of the first month of watching
this movie every day, the details will be so clear… It’s
almost like you’re there in person.

Now, here’s the secret:

MODIFY this movie, so it runs PERFECT.

You should see yourself saying the EXACT right thing.

You should imagine yourself feeling NO FEAR at all.

And you should imagine her giving you her phone number,
then following you home like a little puppy.

Let yourself enjoy it, and watch your mental movie once
per day.

I know it SOUNDS crazy, but you will suddenly find yourself
much, MUCH more comfortable around women.

In fact, you may even find yourself using lines you thought
of in your head… In real life.

It’s extremely powerful, and RARELY used. So try it out
tonight.

But if you want a REAL kick-ass way to ‘cheat’ common
experience…

#2) COMBINATION

This is the “gold standard.”

Combining both Learned experience and Synthetic experience.

Basically, go through whatever material I teach you and
use your imagination to picture yourself USING these
techniques… And doing them, PERFECTLY.

You’ll learn the techniques FASTER.

You’ll see your own SPIN on them.

And you will find yourself COMFORTABLE using them, even as
soon as the first time you use them.

PLUS – When you finally talk to a beautiful woman in real
life, she’ll act exactly like I told you. And you’ll react
like you pictured in your mind.

It basically makes meeting women easy as deja vu.

I highly suggest you Combination Synthetic Experience,
next time you learn ANYTHING. Dating or otherwise.

And if you’d like the quickest, easiest and most effective
set of techniques I know, you should check out The Attraction
Code.

It’s got everything I’ve learned in 10 whole years of dating
HUNDREDS of women. And I’ll help you cheat your own
learning curve, using the synthetic experience I just
taught you about.

You can become confident with women, and ditch your FEAR
forever, as soon as this afternoon:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

And if you’d like to specialize in conversation, then I highly
recommend the Conversation CURE program. It’s got my best
tips for talking to women, stuffed into one, easy to watch
package:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

Use it. Love it.

And I’ll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. How’s your sex life?

Could it be better?

Then check out DSP:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

Touch Her Here To Make Her Moan

Posted: 12th September 2010 by Vin in dating
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I was watching a movie with my girlfriend,
the other day.

It was a chick flick. A real tear-jerker.

But in the middle, there was a love scene that quickly
caught my attention.

No, not because the beautiful housewife was naked
(although you can bet your ass that caught my attention)..

What caught my attention was that when the man pulled her in,
she seemed to resist him. And she LOOKED like she didn’t want
him to kiss her.

But he put his hand on her lower back… Her eyes started to
soften… And when he pulled her closer, she seemed to MELT.

I’m sure you’ve seen it on TV a hundred times.

Thing is, I was watching this, sitting next to my girlfriend,
and I unconsciously touched her in the EXACT same place. With
the EXACT same reaction:

She Melted In My Arms

And the sex that night was extremely passionate.

Then the next morning, I laughed about the night before. But
it got me thinking about all the cool, hidden “sweet spot”
places on a woman’s body that I never knew about before.

And I decided to share THREE of my favorites with YOU,
today.

So warm up your fingers, grab the closest attractive woman,
and let’s get to work ;-)

>> And I know this may sound scary to you, at first.

I remember a time when I couldn’t even IMAGINE myself naked
with a beautiful woman. Let alone predict that in just a few
short minutes I’d be making her moan and squirm. And it was
all because my sexual confidence was DESTROYED.

Thankfully, I discovered a simple system to supercharge your
sexual confidence – So YOU see yourself as a sexual dynamo
in bed, and SHE’LL smell “sex” radiating off you from a mile
away.

I call it The Dominant Sexual Power Program, and you can
get more details, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp
>>

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TOUCH HER HERE TO MAKE HER MOAN:
HER LOWER BACK “TRIANGLE”
********************************

This is my favorite “secret spot” on a woman.

Because most men never touch her there, or if they do,
it’s by accident.

So if you incorporate this little spot into your daily touch,
or even your foreplay, you’ll become her favorite lover of
all time… In no time.

Here’s the LOCATION:

The little triangular ‘bump’ of muscle at the base of her
spine.

Here’s what to DO:

A) If you’re trying to turn her on, while her CLOTHES are
on…

(like a date situation, before sex is an option)

When you put your hand on her lower back, extend your pinky
just a little lower than usual. Then use your pinky to lightly
rub up and down to stimulate this spot.

And if you can somehow get your hand UNDER her shirt – Say
she’s got her midriff exposed, for instance – This spot
REALLY shines.

She MAY give you a sideways glance. Act like it’s all normal.

This is an EASY way to send her a SURE-FIRE signal that you’ll
be a great lover.

B) If you’re already naked…

Foreplay is when this spot REALLY shines.

Light touches are great – Just graze this spot with the pads
of your fingers.

And light kisses are even better. Give her a back rub, and work
your way down to the base of her spine. Give this spot a light
kiss, and then massage it for a little bit.

It will drive her WILD.

And the sex will be AWESOME – Whether you’ve been with her for
just a day, or 10+ years.

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TOUCH HER HERE TO MAKE HER MOAN:
THE NAPE OF HER NECK
********************************

The nape of her neck isn’t JUST for kissing.

(Although it’s a BIG reason women are suckers for vampire
movies and TV shows, lately)

Because where her neck meets her collarbone, it also meets
a nice bundle of nerves. And because there’s little to no
fat or muscle there, she feels each and every touch and kiss.

Here’s what to DO:

A) If you’re not kissing…

Basically, you want to stay away from it.

UNLESS you use it RIGHT before you go in for the kiss.

Like this:

Find a reason to touch her earrings. Then look her in the
eyes, let your fingers trace down her neck, and into that
little ditch near her collar bone, then lean in to kiss
her.

She’ll tell all her friends it was romantic. And she’ll
love it, so it’s much, MUCH easier to get more and more
intimate.

(This is one of those spots you want to avoid unless you’re
FIRMLY in Stage 3 Kino. I talk all about the different stages
of kino, aka ‘touch’, in my FREE book The DiCarlo Escalation
Ladder – Which you can get – for FREE – When you claim a copy
of the Attraction Code. Check it out:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php)

B) If you’re kissing… And want to do MORE…

Then use this spot to get her turned on for more sexual
touch.

Kiss her right in the corner of her collarbone. Or even
tickle her there while you kiss her on the cheek.

Make it fun and she’ll enjoy it. Try too hard and it’ll
come across creepy.

REMEMBER REMEMBER REMEMBER: Touching is FUN – for you, AND
her – When you take a second and RELAX.

Deep breaths.

C) And if you’re using it for foreplay…

Anything goes, basically.

Kissing works. Tickling works. If you’ve got a little scruff
going on, then lightly biting her neck and rubbing it with
your beard works, too.

Just be creative. It’s a very sensitive spot, so she’ll react
to the LIGHTEST touches.

Too forceful = Too BAD!

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TOUCH HER HERE TO MAKE HER MOAN:
THE INSIDE OF HER THIGH
********************************

Ah… The “money spot”

Unlike most men think, this isn’t JUST for foreplay.

And unlike most men think, this spot DOESN’T consist of EVERY
inch of skin on the inside of her thigh.

Here’s the LOCATION:

There’s a nerve that runs down the inside of her thigh spelled
way too confusing for me to figure it out.

(I’m pretty sure my spell check would bust a nut if I tried)

The good news is: When you hit it, you’ll know. AND, you’ve
got one, too, so you can figure out where it is pretty
quickly. (HINT: It’s between your upper thigh muscles and
your lower thigh muscles)

The bad news: It’s a tricky little fucker to get to.

Here’s what to DO:

A) Foreplay and beyond…

I’m starting with this because it’s EASIER, this time.

Lightly rub this nerve with your fingers, getting closer to
her privates each time.

Or trace it lightly with your tongue before you go down
on her.

The KEY to remember here is: 1) PATIENCE and 2) ANTICIPATION

Make her WANT it. And take your TIME.

She’ll go WILD

B) Before her clothes come off, to turn her on…

Any time you’d touch her thighs (so in stage 2 touch), use
your pinky to lightly trace that nerve.

Just lightly. And just a little bit, to gauge how she
reacts.

When she openly likes it, you can play around a little more.

Your pinky is a VERY useful tool, and guys don’t use it
enough, for sure.

For instance:

* Touching just a LITTLE lower than your hand is used to,
so she knows you’re DARING – But not too pushy

* It’s a finger you don’t use often, so the touch is very
gentle and soft – Use it when you’re likely to put TOO
much pressure on otherwise

* Plus, it makes you feel a little “sneaky” or “talented”
when you turn a girl on, with only your pinky ;-)

But what if you could turn a girl on… With only your
WORDS?

What if you could have dinner with a girl, and talk to her
in a way that turns her on to the point she’s picturing
sex with you… And the people around you have NO idea?

What if you knew the right tone and WORDS to use to make
a girl you just meant want to sleep with you, in only 2-4
hours after you met?

When I started out learning how to meet women, I thought
everything above was impossible. Luckily, I was dead wrong.

And in my S-Cubed program, I lay out the in’s and out’s of
Sensual Language (aka dirty talk) as well as Sexual Tension
- the feeling packed into romance novels – And explain
1) HOW they work and 2) HOW to use them. You can check it
out, here:

http://www.GoCubeYourself.com

And just a few months ago, I decided to “beef up” the old
system. I took a few of the techniques from S-Cubed, added
a TON of new insights, tips, techniques and even TOPICS…

… Then got a NEW perspective from my top Coaches – Brian
and Matt…

… And recorded an audio program that explains – in full
color detail – How to turn her on… How to have UNSTOPPABLE
Sexual Confidence… And how to EXUDE the raw sexuality
rock stars and movie gods have, without ever needing the
fame, power or fortune.

And I call this program The Dominant Sexual Power Program.
For very obvious reasons. If you want an amazing sex life, this
is the first step:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

So tonight – Touch her like I showed you, and make her
have the most AMAZING night of her life.

Maybe she’ll return the favor ;-)

5 Simple Tips For The Perfect Date

Posted: 9th September 2010 by Vin in 1
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If you’ve ever taken a girl on a first date,
you’ve wondered:

“Is she having fun?”

“What do I say now?”

and… When you arrive at the end of the night…

“What the hell do I do now?”

HERE’S A LITTLE SECRET:

The most important part of a date is HOW YOU ACT
around your woman.

It’s the first thing she looks at. And it’s the ONLY
way to get her attracted to you, because even money
and power only make her hot because YOU could get them.

So in this email, I’m going to reveal 5 simple tips
for having AMAZING first (or later) dates. And if you’d
like to put your “best foot forward” on a date, regardless
of where you’re going or WHAT you’re doing, I highly
recommend getting your hands on a copy of The Attraction
Code. You can get the details, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

Last night, I got back from a first date with a new
girl. I brought her back to my place, and we ended
up in my bed.

And I thought to myself, “Man, if only I knew back THEN
what I know now…”

And then I realized, I could share the tips and techniques
I use to get a girl back to my place on the first date
with YOU – So YOU can have fun, fulfilling, exciting
first dates, without having the learn or get rejected
in the process.

Even better – These date tips work WONDERS for a first date,
but they’re even MORE effective the longer you’re dating
a woman.

So use these tips the first time you two go out.

Keep using them down the road.

And she’ll never get bored, or “play hard to get” when you
schedule a date, ever again.

Let’s start with one of my favorites:

********************************
WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #1:
COMPLIANCE, COMPLIANCE, COMPLIANCE
********************************

Compliance is a term I use a lot that means:

“Getting her to work for you”

And it’s important because people value things they WORK
for, not stuff they get for free.

And this applies just as powerfully to love, romance and
sex as it does to trinkets, money and power.

So when you go on a date, always make sure she’s “working”
harder than you. Don’t make it TOO difficult, but here
are a few suggestions:

* Have her drive farther than you, to meet you

* Maybe have her pick you up, and drive YOU places

* Give her directions with one turn missing, so she has
to call you for help

* Have her do things for you like hold your drink, wait
for you to grab something, or sit where you tell her to

These are all little things, but they add up in her MIND.

And when piled together, she’ll have almost no choice but
to become physically attracted to you.

After all – She WORKED for your attention, right? :-)

********************************
WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #2:
KEEP IT FUN & EXCITING
********************************

But as soon as you learn compliance ^^^, you should
forget it – completely.

Make this your goal of the date: To give her an AMAZING night,
regardless of “outcome” (ie. what happens at the end of the
night)

Because focusing on the “outcome” will make you look needy
or even insecure. And no smart, intelligent and attractive
woman wants a needy insecure man.

So by trying your best to “live in the moment”, be fun and
making your date as fun and exciting as possible, you’ll
automatically turn her on.

Counter intuitive, isn’t it? That’s why it takes so many men
FOREVER to learn. And sadly, thousands upon thousands of guys
never figure it out for themselves.

It all comes down to a lack of EXPERIENCE with women. Which
stems from a lack of BELIEF and CONFIDENCE in yourself.

And it all back be FIXED once you take a good, honest look
in the mirror, then see the powerful sexual confidence you
had hiding deep inside you.

I designed the Dominant Sexual Power program to unlock that
sexual confidence. And you can read all about it, at the
link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

********************************
WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #3:
HAVE MULTIPLE ‘MINI-DATES’
********************************

Here’s where we start getting skillful.

Always schedule multiple “mini-dates”, instead of just one
“DATE” date.

For instance, I used to take girls to dinner, then grab a
drink at an after-hours place and then head back to my place
for a movie. (Which we picked out on the way)

I know now that dinner is an AWFUL date idea, because you
spend money and you both feel full and bloated. But the mini-
dates idea stuck.

Did you catch the sneaky trick? No? Let me explain it to you:

We get closer and closer to my place, without making any
big “jumps”

So when you want to end the night back at your place, it seems
like “oh, it’s just a few blocks away” instead of “lets head
downtown to my place.”

AND – In her mind – Every time you change LOCATION, you’ve
gone on a separate date. Because your mind separates DATES
usually based on ONE LOCATION.

(Since it’s how everyone ELSE does it)

So when you bring her back to your place, you’re already on
“date three” in her mind. And date THREE is usually the date
she feels comfortable… Well, you know ;-)

THE KEY here is to schedule these mini-dates in advance.
Not with her, but in your head.

So take a second to plan out THREE mini-dates that:

A) START at a fun place, where you both play a game or
take place in an activity. Ie. rock climbing, bowling,
an arcade… etc

B) NEXT move to either a place where you can get drinks,
or cool down from activity #1. Ie. after hours club, ice
cream, walk in the park… etc.

C) THEN either do another B date ^^ … or…

D) FINALLY end it back at your place. But use an “excuse”
date, like a movie, or listening to music, etc.

The great part is, if she decides you’re moving a little
“too fast”, you just invited her back for a movie or
music.

So you’re not rejected. You don’t look creepy in her eyes.
And if she comes in, sex is almost always on the table.

But if she doesn’t – No harm, no foul. You both still had
an AMAZING night.

********************************
WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #4:
MAKE IT END BACK AT YOUR PLACE
********************************

I kind of covered this in the section above, because it’s
EXTREMELY important.

Here’s another thing to think about:

When you end the date back at YOUR place, it makes you
automatically come across as the guy in power.

Because you’re home, and she has to drive back to wherever
she lives. She’s working HARDER for you, remember?

It’s a subtle little tip, but it pays off in the long
run.

********************************
WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #5:
GO FOR THE GOODNIGHT KISS
********************************

Or the arm around the shoulders.

Or try to get her in bed.

JUST DON’T LET IT BE THE FIRST TIME YOU TOUCH HER!

You should be lightly touching her arms, waist and legs
throughout the night.

Start with the arms, move to the torso and legs… And finally,
when you go for the kiss, it will be a NATURAL progression.
Instead of coming out of the blue.

I discuss this in much, MUCH more detail in The DiCarlo
Escalation Ladder. It tells you how to touch a woman so you’re
smoothly getting more intimate. And The Ladder even shows you
how to go from first kiss to your first time in bed together
in as little as 20 minutes.

Best of all – It’s FREE when you claim your copy of The
Attraction Code, today. Check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

This is important for the same reason MINI-DATES work:

You’re being SMOOTH, instead of RUSHED.

Instead of NEEDY.

Instead of INSECURE.

And it shows you don’t NEED sex – You just want to be more
physically intimate with HER.

(Which ironically makes sex with her that much EASIER)

So if you want to give a girl an amazing first date, make
sure the last thing she remembers about you is a SMOOTH,
PASSIONATE good-night kiss…

… Instead of an awkward goodbye hug that leaves you both
unsatisfied.

Now these tips will give you an amazing date idea, almost
100% of the time. But what if you can’t get her phone number?
Or what if you get her number, and she practically REFUSES
to meet up in person?

She’s got every excuse in the book… And you secretly think
she’s slowly losing attraction for you…

HINT: The BEST way to spark her attraction is to meet her
again IN PERSON – And remind her why she liked you in the
first place.

And if you’d like an easy, three-step system to get any
girl’s number… Then make her pick up her phone like Brad
Pitt was on the line, and nearly BEG to meet up with you…
Then I highly recommend you get your hands on the NoFlakes
DVDs.

In this program, I give you an easy three-step system to make
any woman almost BEG for a first date. And I even show you
text messages that WORK – And you can steal, word-for-word.
Check it out:

http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live

And I’ll talk to you soon.

PS. Try this:

A) Bowling

B) Ice Cream

C) Movie at your place

It’s basic – and not the BEST date you can come up with –
But it’s a PROVEN winner.

And as long as you keep it fun, light and exciting, she’ll
feel like a little kid again.

(Which is a GOOD thing)

Top 3 Reasons Women Like Jerks

Posted: 8th September 2010 by Vin in 1
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In this email, I’m going to share the top 3
reasons women like jerks (and how to turn the
tables in YOUR favor)…

… Plus, I’ll teach you a never-fail first line
you can say to a woman you meet at a Starbucks
or other coffee shop.

So let’s get started:

***QUESTION FROM READER***

“Hey Vin,

I’ve been meaning to write you for awhile now.
I’m a student going to college and the girls here
are beautiful, but I don’t know how to approach!

I always see this cute little blond girl getting
coffee ahead of me at the school coffee house and
I want to talk to her but I never know what to say.

I love your emails, and I read them everyday but
I can’t help thinking college is different and this
girl is BEAUTIFUL, so it freaks me out!! Got any
advice?

Thanks a ton!

- Peter K., NY”

>>> Hey Peter,

College can be either the “promised land” or just
another frustrating year, when it comes to meeting
women.

I had always seen videos of Girls Gone Wild, and
heard about wild sex parties… So when I got to
school, and didn’t hook up with a girl until my
THIRD year there, I started to feel “lost.”

I felt like I didn’t know what to do. And I felt like
every other guy knew something about meeting women
I didn’t.

But here’s the REAL secret of college life:

Most Guys Aren’t Getting Laid, Either!

It seems counter-intuitive, but there are a LOT
of frustrated men walking around college campuses.

The reason college gets it’s reputation, is because
women are just finding their sexuality. And CERTAIN
men sleep with almost ALL the women.

In fact, roughly 10% of men at college campuses -
and this carries over to the rest of the world -
Can practically walk out their front door, look
at a woman they want, talk to her like they’re
old friends chatting…

… Then bring her home, that same day.

Sounds crazy, but it’s the absolute truth, and I
wouldn’t have believed it myself if I hadn’t seen
it with my own two eyes.

What do these guys have, that you don’t?

And how can YOU have this level of success with
women?

Well first, you need to have a basic hold on your
conversation skills. You need to ESPECIALLY know
how to talk to WOMEN.

Including, the first line to say… How to avoid
asking her too many questions… How to instantly
recover from a “flubbed” line… And tons more.

Now you can either master talking to women by racking
up HUGE amounts of real-life experience… or…
You can get your hands on the Conversation CURE
program, and short-cut the whole process.

You can find out more details, here:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

As far as meeting girls in a Starbucks, or other coffee
shop, it’s QUITE easy.

In fact, my girlfriends and their friends have started
calling Starbucks “the new bar”, because they practically
ALWAYS get hit on their.

So when they get a coffee, secretly, she’s looking to
meet YOU.

(I remember way back before Starbucks, and it almost seems
WEIRD picking up a girl in a Dunkin Donuts… That just
me? ;-)

Here’s what you say:

“I noticed you *DOING WHAT SHE’S DOING*, and you *WHAT
YOU NOTICED ABOUT HER*, so I HAD to come talk to you”

Here’s an example:

“I noticed you READING THAT BOOK, and you looked SO
PASSIONATE ABOUT IT, that I HAD to come talk to you”

No matter how you fill in the blanks, it’s going to
sound spontaneous, and like an awesome compliment.

She’ll love it, I promise.

(By the way, if you would like YOUR question answered
by me, personally, fire me an email to askvin@vindicarlo.com
I personally check that address daily, and I sometimes
select your questions to help people, worldwide)

Next up…

***QUESTION FROM A READER***

“I’m sick of this shit!

I’ve been dating this girl for like three months now,
and last night she broke up with me for no reason!
Well, she’s going to get back together with her
LOSER ex-boyfriend, but the guy’s a jerk!

Why do women get together with jerks? Is it some
part of her that WANTS to be hurt? It just frustrates
the hell out of me because I know I’d be the better
choice for her. AHHH! I’m so pissed off…

Anyways Vin, help me out man. Love your stuff
and The Attraction Code got me this girl in
the first place. What did I miss that drove
her away?!

- P., Denver, CO.”

>>> Hey P,

Break-ups are rough.

When a man and a woman who were into each other split up,
SOMEONE’S going to go through tough feelings.

Usually what happens is this:

1) You start out in love

2) She slowly notices something about you that secretly
reveals you lack a little dominance

3) She slowly falls out of love

4) Break-up

And the worst part is, women naturally go from GOOD relationships
to AWFUL ones. Because she wants to go from the guy she JUST
dated, to a guy who’s the EXACT opposite.

So her dating some jerk ex-boyfriend lets me know that
she wanted a few EXTRA things from YOU, in your
relationship.

Nothing major, and I discuss them all in The Attraction
Code. The danger is just that after three months, you
may have decided:

“Oh, she’s attracted, so I can slack off and not keep
being confident, dominant and exciting”

Unfortunately – To KEEP a woman, you’ve got to KEEP being
confident, dominant and exciting.

The GOOD part is, being confident, dominant and exciting is
empowering, fun and GOOD for you as a man.

(I’m addicted to lists of three. Blame it on my physics major)

I remember when my first wife broke up with me.

I was SHATTERED, emotionally.

I had no clue what I did wrong, and I felt like the biggest
loser in the whole world. Especially because she ran off
with a guy who probably made her life MISERABLE in the
long run.

But looking back on it, I just STOPPED showing the three
traits girls LOVE in jerks, and she left me for it. I vowed
never to screw that up again, so even when I was living in
the back of a cleaning van…

… because I CONSTANTLY showed these three traits…

… I had up to 9 girlfriends at one time. All of them loved
me for who I was. And the relationships – and the sex –
Couldn’t have been better.

Here are the three, and how to use them – EFFECTIVELY:

**********************************
FIRST REASON WHY WOMEN LIKE JERKS:
CONFIDENCE
**********************************

Confidence is key.

You’ve heard this OVER and OVER again, so I won’t
bore you with the details.

Women like guys who are “going places” and can protect
her.

Confidence shows her you’re BOTH “going places” and can
protect her. So it’s a no-brainer that she’s attracted
to confident guys.

Confidence also shows up when a guy is SUCCESSFUL at
SOMETHING in his life. So she knows when she dates a
confident guy, that he’s not just another dude with
no life plan or passion.

Because of that, there’s an EASY way to inject confidence
into your everyday attitude:

Find Your Passion… And Practice It, Daily

Figure out what you’re passionate about, and spend even
just an hour a day working towards MASTERY on that topic.

So say your passion is rock-climbing. (I’ve got a friend
who’s a MONKEY in the boulder room)

Spend an hour per day climbing rocks. Hell, it’s great
exercise, so you can just replace your gym hour with your
rock-climbing hour, and you’re all set!

Or if your passion is chess, find a time you would normally
read a book, and play a few games on the computer or with
a friend.

It’s an easy excuse to be semi-social, and it’s GREAT
for your puzzle-solving skills.

THE WAY THIS IMPROVES YOUR CONFIDENCE: Is by giving you
an “area of expertise”, where you are an AUTHORITY on
a certain subject.

So when you meet someone, you’ll subconsciously KNOW more
about them on some, single topic. At minimum.

That way, you can talk to them as EQUALS – with CONFIDENCE -
Instead of always feeling “lower” or “less able” than
another person.

Now you may want to pick rock-climbing over chess, because…

**********************************
SECOND REASON WHY WOMEN LIKE JERKS:
EXCITEMENT
**********************************

Women love excitement.

Think about the shows she watches, the movies she buys, the
books she reads…

They’re all full of 1) Sex and 2) Excitement.

So you should bring 1) sex and 2) Excitement into her life.

Thankfully, in every program I’ve ever designed, from The
Attraction Code (http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php)
to NoFlakes! (http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live), I show you
exactly how to bring SEX into her life.

Here are two great tips, for excitement:

A) Be Unpredictable.

And this goes hand-in-hand with living in the moment,
and then being spontaneous.

Take random trips with her. Make love on the kitchen table.
Or grab her hand, grab your wallet and take a random road
trip for the weekend – To a destination NEITHER or you
knows.

These will all BOOST your excitement level to her, and
make you VERY attractive.

B) Don’t Toe The “Politically Correct” Line.

Voice your thoughts and opinions FULLY.

Say what you think.

And don’t be afraid to offend her or anyone else,
for that matter.

Not only does this show a TON of dominance (Because you
don’t care if they disapprove)…

… This also shows her you can be exciting, because
you’ll stick to your guns when everyone else is being
shy and backing down.

You saying what’s on your mind liberates HER to do
the same.

And she’ll love you for it.

But no matter how exciting you are, don’t forget…

**********************************
THIRD REASON WHY WOMEN LIKE JERKS:
DOMINANCE
**********************************

Jerks are dominant sonnuvabitches.

They take what they want, when they want it…

If he wants sex with her, he’ll make it rough, passionate
and exciting…

And as far as he’s concerned, the rest of the world is
his playground.

You could learn a thing or two.

Now, I’m not saying you should stop caring what other people
think, entirely… And you SHOULDN’T put your girlfriend
down in public, or make her feel bad about herself…

But being DOMINANT, and IN CONTROL of your life and the
people around you is INSANELY attractive to a woman.

In fact, it’s THE MOST ATTRACTIVE TRAIT you can have as
a man, because she’s biologically built to sleep with
a dominant man and raise dominant babies.

And it’s also the FIRST TRAIT men lose, when they hop
into relationships.

You start letting her make most of the decisions…

You let her choose things for you…

And you silence your own opinions to avoid fights or
conflict…

Unfortunately, by doing the three things above, you also
TURN OFF your dominance, and therefore silence her attraction
for you.

So she’s turned OFF by you. And leaving you is a MUST
not an option.

Thankfully, there are THOUSANDS of ways to show her
you’re a dominant man.

And I know from experience that 90% of relationships
are able to be saved, if you turn up your dominance.
I’ve been there, and seen it happen for myself and
HUNDREDS of other men.

So if you think your dominance is an issue in YOUR relationship,
I highly recommend you claim a copy of The Attraction Code.

In it, I summarize EVERYTHING I’ve learned in over ten years
learning about and teaching men how to pick up women.
Including my most powerful tips, tricks and techniques
to keep your dominance HIGH in a relationship.

You can check out the details, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

And I’ll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. Sometimes your “relationship troubles” are as simple
as not having enough – or GOOD enough – sex.

If that’s the case – or you just plain want to be a better
lover – Check out The Dominant Sexual Power Program.

In it, I teach you about the four pillars to amazing sex,
sexual confidence and keeping the sexual tension sparks
FLYING between the two of you.

Best of all – It works whether your single (it powers up
your sexual confidence), dating (helps you get her in bed
QUICKER) or in a relationship (recharges her attraction
for YOU)

So check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

Top 3 Reasons Women Like Jerks

Posted: 8th September 2010 by Vin in dating
Tags: , , , ,
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In this email, I’m going to share the top 3
reasons women like jerks (and how to turn the
tables in YOUR favor)…

… Plus, I’ll teach you a never-fail first line
you can say to a woman you meet at a Starbucks
or other coffee shop.

So let’s get started:

***QUESTION FROM READER***

“Hey Vin,

I’ve been meaning to write you for awhile now.
I’m a student going to college and the girls here
are beautiful, but I don’t know how to approach!

I always see this cute little blond girl getting
coffee ahead of me at the school coffee house and
I want to talk to her but I never know what to say.

I love your emails, and I read them everyday but
I can’t help thinking college is different and this
girl is BEAUTIFUL, so it freaks me out!! Got any
advice?

Thanks a ton!

- Peter K., NY”

>>> Hey Peter,

College can be either the “promised land” or just
another frustrating year, when it comes to meeting
women.

I had always seen videos of Girls Gone Wild, and
heard about wild sex parties… So when I got to
school, and didn’t hook up with a girl until my
THIRD year there, I started to feel “lost.”

I felt like I didn’t know what to do. And I felt like
every other guy knew something about meeting women
I didn’t.

But here’s the REAL secret of college life:

Most Guys Aren’t Getting Laid, Either!

It seems counter-intuitive, but there are a LOT
of frustrated men walking around college campuses.

The reason college gets it’s reputation, is because
women are just finding their sexuality. And CERTAIN
men sleep with almost ALL the women.

In fact, roughly 10% of men at college campuses -
and this carries over to the rest of the world -
Can practically walk out their front door, look
at a woman they want, talk to her like they’re
old friends chatting…

… Then bring her home, that same day.

Sounds crazy, but it’s the absolute truth, and I
wouldn’t have believed it myself if I hadn’t seen
it with my own two eyes.

What do these guys have, that you don’t?

And how can YOU have this level of success with
women?

Well first, you need to have a basic hold on your
conversation skills. You need to ESPECIALLY know
how to talk to WOMEN.

Including, the first line to say… How to avoid
asking her too many questions… How to instantly
recover from a “flubbed” line… And tons more.

Now you can either master talking to women by racking
up HUGE amounts of real-life experience… or…
You can get your hands on the Conversation CURE
program, and short-cut the whole process.

You can find out more details, here:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

As far as meeting girls in a Starbucks, or other coffee
shop, it’s QUITE easy.

In fact, my girlfriends and their friends have started
calling Starbucks “the new bar”, because they practically
ALWAYS get hit on their.

So when they get a coffee, secretly, she’s looking to
meet YOU.

(I remember way back before Starbucks, and it almost seems
WEIRD picking up a girl in a Dunkin Donuts… That just
me? ;-)

Here’s what you say:

“I noticed you *DOING WHAT SHE’S DOING*, and you *WHAT
YOU NOTICED ABOUT HER*, so I HAD to come talk to you”

Here’s an example:

“I noticed you READING THAT BOOK, and you looked SO
PASSIONATE ABOUT IT, that I HAD to come talk to you”

No matter how you fill in the blanks, it’s going to
sound spontaneous, and like an awesome compliment.

She’ll love it, I promise.

(By the way, if you would like YOUR question answered
by me, personally, fire me an email to askvin@vindicarlo.com
I personally check that address daily, and I sometimes
select your questions to help people, worldwide)

Next up…

***QUESTION FROM A READER***

“I’m sick of this shit!

I’ve been dating this girl for like three months now,
and last night she broke up with me for no reason!
Well, she’s going to get back together with her
LOSER ex-boyfriend, but the guy’s a jerk!

Why do women get together with jerks? Is it some
part of her that WANTS to be hurt? It just frustrates
the hell out of me because I know I’d be the better
choice for her. AHHH! I’m so pissed off…

Anyways Vin, help me out man. Love your stuff
and The Attraction Code got me this girl in
the first place. What did I miss that drove
her away?!

- P., Denver, CO.”

>>> Hey P,

Break-ups are rough.

When a man and a woman who were into each other split up,
SOMEONE’S going to go through tough feelings.

Usually what happens is this:

1) You start out in love

2) She slowly notices something about you that secretly
reveals you lack a little dominance

3) She slowly falls out of love

4) Break-up

And the worst part is, women naturally go from GOOD relationships
to AWFUL ones. Because she wants to go from the guy she JUST
dated, to a guy who’s the EXACT opposite.

So her dating some jerk ex-boyfriend lets me know that
she wanted a few EXTRA things from YOU, in your
relationship.

Nothing major, and I discuss them all in The Attraction
Code. The danger is just that after three months, you
may have decided:

“Oh, she’s attracted, so I can slack off and not keep
being confident, dominant and exciting”

Unfortunately – To KEEP a woman, you’ve got to KEEP being
confident, dominant and exciting.

The GOOD part is, being confident, dominant and exciting is
empowering, fun and GOOD for you as a man.

(I’m addicted to lists of three. Blame it on my physics major)

I remember when my first wife broke up with me.

I was SHATTERED, emotionally.

I had no clue what I did wrong, and I felt like the biggest
loser in the whole world. Especially because she ran off
with a guy who probably made her life MISERABLE in the
long run.

But looking back on it, I just STOPPED showing the three
traits girls LOVE in jerks, and she left me for it. I vowed
never to screw that up again, so even when I was living in
the back of a cleaning van…

… because I CONSTANTLY showed these three traits…

… I had up to 9 girlfriends at one time. All of them loved
me for who I was. And the relationships – and the sex –
Couldn’t have been better.

Here are the three, and how to use them – EFFECTIVELY:

**********************************
FIRST REASON WHY WOMEN LIKE JERKS:
CONFIDENCE
**********************************

Confidence is key.

You’ve heard this OVER and OVER again, so I won’t
bore you with the details.

Women like guys who are “going places” and can protect
her.

Confidence shows her you’re BOTH “going places” and can
protect her. So it’s a no-brainer that she’s attracted
to confident guys.

Confidence also shows up when a guy is SUCCESSFUL at
SOMETHING in his life. So she knows when she dates a
confident guy, that he’s not just another dude with
no life plan or passion.

Because of that, there’s an EASY way to inject confidence
into your everyday attitude:

Find Your Passion… And Practice It, Daily

Figure out what you’re passionate about, and spend even
just an hour a day working towards MASTERY on that topic.

So say your passion is rock-climbing. (I’ve got a friend
who’s a MONKEY in the boulder room)

Spend an hour per day climbing rocks. Hell, it’s great
exercise, so you can just replace your gym hour with your
rock-climbing hour, and you’re all set!

Or if your passion is chess, find a time you would normally
read a book, and play a few games on the computer or with
a friend.

It’s an easy excuse to be semi-social, and it’s GREAT
for your puzzle-solving skills.

THE WAY THIS IMPROVES YOUR CONFIDENCE: Is by giving you
an “area of expertise”, where you are an AUTHORITY on
a certain subject.

So when you meet someone, you’ll subconsciously KNOW more
about them on some, single topic. At minimum.

That way, you can talk to them as EQUALS – with CONFIDENCE -
Instead of always feeling “lower” or “less able” than
another person.

Now you may want to pick rock-climbing over chess, because…

**********************************
SECOND REASON WHY WOMEN LIKE JERKS:
EXCITEMENT
**********************************

Women love excitement.

Think about the shows she watches, the movies she buys, the
books she reads…

They’re all full of 1) Sex and 2) Excitement.

So you should bring 1) sex and 2) Excitement into her life.

Thankfully, in every program I’ve ever designed, from The
Attraction Code (http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php)
to NoFlakes! (http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live), I show you
exactly how to bring SEX into her life.

Here are two great tips, for excitement:

A) Be Unpredictable.

And this goes hand-in-hand with living in the moment,
and then being spontaneous.

Take random trips with her. Make love on the kitchen table.
Or grab her hand, grab your wallet and take a random road
trip for the weekend – To a destination NEITHER or you
knows.

These will all BOOST your excitement level to her, and
make you VERY attractive.

B) Don’t Toe The “Politically Correct” Line.

Voice your thoughts and opinions FULLY.

Say what you think.

And don’t be afraid to offend her or anyone else,
for that matter.

Not only does this show a TON of dominance (Because you
don’t care if they disapprove)…

… This also shows her you can be exciting, because
you’ll stick to your guns when everyone else is being
shy and backing down.

You saying what’s on your mind liberates HER to do
the same.

And she’ll love you for it.

But no matter how exciting you are, don’t forget…

**********************************
THIRD REASON WHY WOMEN LIKE JERKS:
DOMINANCE
**********************************

Jerks are dominant sonnuvabitches.

They take what they want, when they want it…

If he wants sex with her, he’ll make it rough, passionate
and exciting…

And as far as he’s concerned, the rest of the world is
his playground.

You could learn a thing or two.

Now, I’m not saying you should stop caring what other people
think, entirely… And you SHOULDN’T put your girlfriend
down in public, or make her feel bad about herself…

But being DOMINANT, and IN CONTROL of your life and the
people around you is INSANELY attractive to a woman.

In fact, it’s THE MOST ATTRACTIVE TRAIT you can have as
a man, because she’s biologically built to sleep with
a dominant man and raise dominant babies.

And it’s also the FIRST TRAIT men lose, when they hop
into relationships.

You start letting her make most of the decisions…

You let her choose things for you…

And you silence your own opinions to avoid fights or
conflict…

Unfortunately, by doing the three things above, you also
TURN OFF your dominance, and therefore silence her attraction
for you.

So she’s turned OFF by you. And leaving you is a MUST
not an option.

Thankfully, there are THOUSANDS of ways to show her
you’re a dominant man.

And I know from experience that 90% of relationships
are able to be saved, if you turn up your dominance.
I’ve been there, and seen it happen for myself and
HUNDREDS of other men.

So if you think your dominance is an issue in YOUR relationship,
I highly recommend you claim a copy of The Attraction Code.

In it, I summarize EVERYTHING I’ve learned in over ten years
learning about and teaching men how to pick up women.
Including my most powerful tips, tricks and techniques
to keep your dominance HIGH in a relationship.

You can check out the details, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

And I’ll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. Sometimes your “relationship troubles” are as simple
as not having enough – or GOOD enough – sex.

If that’s the case – or you just plain want to be a better
lover – Check out The Dominant Sexual Power Program.

In it, I teach you about the four pillars to amazing sex,
sexual confidence and keeping the sexual tension sparks
FLYING between the two of you.

Best of all – It works whether your single (it powers up
your sexual confidence), dating (helps you get her in bed
QUICKER) or in a relationship (recharges her attraction
for YOU)

So check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

Fix Your Confidence With Women

Posted: 5th September 2010 by Vin in 1
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>If you want a ‘quick fix’ to power-up your
confidence with women, I highly recommend
you check out The Red Pill program. You
can learn more, at the link below:

http://www.GetTheRedPill.com
>

This may be tough to admit sometimes, but have
you ever felt “not good enough” to talk to
certain women?

Have you ever felt like beautiful women, or the
women you REALLY want are reserved for some guy
who’s “better” than you?

And I know it’s not something you think about
everyday, but have you ever felt like OTHER guys
have some special ‘knowledge’ or ‘gift’ with women
you simply never learned? Some unfair advantage?

Have you ever felt like ‘hiding’ your true thoughts
and opinions around other people – especially women -
for fear they won’t like your ideas? Or that she’ll
judge you, or be TURNED OFF by who you really are?

Do you ever think you need to “trick” women into
liking you, because your REAL personality is too
intellectual, or quirky for her?

Or have you ever kept from telling other people about
your passions in life, because you’re afraid they’ll
judge you, or think it’s not a “cool” idea?

If you can relate to anything I’ve said above,
you know the pain and struggle of walking through
every day, knowing you should be more confident.
And simply not knowing how to do it.

I know, because I’ve been there.

I lived the best years of my life – my teens and 20s -
Wondering how to “shut off” my inner voice that told
me time and time again:

“You’re not good enough for her”

“Don’t tell them that! They’ll just laugh”

or “They’re too cool / good-looking / rich to hang
out with YOU”

I wanted to shut him up. To silence him.

To lock him in a box and never hear from him,
ever again.

But every time I tried to put the negative thoughts
out of my mind, it seems like they’d SWOOP back in,
stronger than before.

Like every time I tried to IGNORE just how small and
fragile I felt around other people, the STRONGER and
STRONGER my inner voice would tell me:

“But you are. Why hide it?”

or “Screw them! You don’t need other people”

and even “It’s not your fault, other people are
holding you back. You don’t know what to do!”

… Which I immediately knew meant, “You can’t handle
this on your own”

At this time in my life, I woke up and wondered how
my thoughts could get any more negative. And I dwelled
on how things were screwed up for me, instead of what
was going RIGHT.

And the more I tried to change, the more I stayed
the SAME!

Unfortunately, many men – and maybe you – are burdened
with the same lack of confidence I once had.

And others – especially women – can see it coming from
a mile away. Have you ever heard the expression:

“The eyes are windows to the soul?”

Well, when you can’t even hold eye-contact, or she
looks into the eyes of a man who lacks self-confidence,
she instantly can see the soul of a guy who doesn’t
feel READY or ABLE to take care of her, sexually.

And MUCH less, romantically.

Thankfully, after YEARS of beating myself up, I decided
to smarten up and finally get my self-confidence under
control, once and for all.

I discovered that the “voice in your head” really isn’t
a voice at all.

What this “voice” really is, is a set of BELIEFS you have
about yourself, your self-image and your ability to meet
women.

And if you try to do something ABOVE AND BEYOND these
beliefs, that voice SHOUTS over everything else. To let
you know you’re putting yourself in danger.

That you’re setting yourself up to fail.

And that voice does it’s best to make you BACK OFF,
and live in your ‘comfort zone.’

The problem is: Your “comfort zone” doesn’t include a
CONFIDENT life, filled with women.

So how do you CHANGE those beliefs? And how do you expand
your comfort zone, so this voice HELPS you, instead of
HURTS you?

Simple: I discovered that learning the TRUTH about
dating and meeting women automatically overrides any
“day dreams” you have about the dating game, today.

It’s like you’re under the spell of a master hypnotist.
And when he tells you to act like a chicken, you believe,
FEEL and ACT like a chicken.

But when he makes you look into a mirror, and see your
true form for the first time… The spell is instantly
reversed, and you feel a little silly for your behavior.

But what’s even better: You never again will act like
a “chicken”, or feel like a fool for being yourself,
ever again.

And when I discovered these truths, they changed my life
and my self-confidence just as dramatically as if I were
under hypnosis for my entire life.

And then, I forgot about these techniques. I locked them
up in a box. And I stored them away for what could’ve
been eternity.

Thankfully, when I moved last year, I came across this
box filled with scribbled notes and revelations I had
while I was improving my self-confidence.

I took these notes, and I built a program out of them.

This program was designed to teach these revelations to
each and every man who listened to it. And to wake them
up from their self-hypnosis, for good.

I call this program The Red Pill, because you take it
once and “wake up from the Matrix”, like the 1990′s action
movie of the same name.

You instantly see the world as it REALLY is. Not like
your “inner critic voice” WANTS you to see it.

And you will instantly feel a sexual power and confidence
you’ve never felt before, in your entire life.

The best part is: I remembered just how hard my struggle
was, to master these techniques. And such it’s a VITAL
part of your growth, I want EVERY man alive to have
access to these techniques.

That’s why I set up a special webpage, where you can
type in WHATEVER NUMBER YOU WANT to pay for The Red Pill
Program.

Read all about it. And if you believe it’s worth a single
dollar to you – Then type in a dollar. And if you believe
it’s worth thousands – type in thousands.

Honestly, I want this program to help you. And I don’t want
ANYTHING keeping you from it.

So visit the webpage I set up for you, below, and Name Your
OWN Price for The Red Pill package. Claim it for yourself.
And finally handle your self-confidence, once and for all:

http://www.GetTheRedPill.com

3 Secrets Every Woman Keeps From

Posted: 4th September 2010 by Vin in dating
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Women aren’t always ‘up front’ and honest.

In fact, what she’s “saying”, and what she’s
SAYING are often two entirely different things.

Take, for example, when she says “Forget it”
after a fight.

What she’s saying is: “OK. Don’t worry about it.
We’ve figured this out, and it’s all water under
the bridge”

But what she means is: “I will NEVER forget this.
And I won’t let YOU, either”

Now, this is the cause of MOST of the frustration
most men – and maybe you – Have with women.

So when I got this email the other day, it really
hit home.

Read his question, because in my response, I’ll
share the 3 Secrets EVERY Woman Keeps From Her Man,
and how to side-step these “battles waiting to happen”
so you have a smooth, trouble free relationship.

>>> And if you’re “STUCK” in a dead-end relationship,
you should know there IS a way out! In fact, there’s
a way to “rewind” the clock on your relationship, so
she once again acts like the sweet, docile young woman
you fell in love with. The secret: It all has to do with
how YOU act, and YOUR beliefs. I share more secrets
in The Red Pill program. And you can read more about
it, at the link below:

http://www.GetTheRedPill.com
>>>

Check it out:

***QUESTION FROM A READER***

“Yo Vin,

Thanks to your newsletters and The Red Pill,
I finally met this AMAZING girl and we had a
blast for the first month of our relationship.

The sex was awesome, and we couldn’t get enough
of each other. I used to think couples that had
tons of PDA or called each other every night were
disgusting, until I noticed I was doing it, too. lol.

But in the last week or so, we’ve really hit rock
bottom. There’s no more sex. And we fight almost
constantly. I’m itching to leave, but I really love
her, and I don’t want to make her life even
harder for her. (She’s going through a rough
spot, financially)

What should I do? Got any advice?

Thanks again for everything you’ve done for me,
and I hope you can help me with this one!

- Joey P., Orlando FL”

>>>> Hey Joey,

First thing’s first:

YOU’ve got to live YOUR life.

If it’s time for you two to break up, it’s time
for you two to break up. Because NEITHER of you
should be stuck in a dead-end relationship,
when you could be healing, separately.

So if your ONLY reason for being with her is
so that her life isn’t harder… Well, maybe it
would be best for both of you if you moved on
and made it easier for her to get back on her
feet.

But I have a sneaking suspicion that’s not the
case.

You see, I’ve been in countless relationships over
the years, and the pattern you’re describing to me
seems WAY too clear:

The sex starts to “run dry”

Then you start bickering

And before you know it, there’s full out fighting,
or you’re quietly planning to pack your things and
call it quits.

And then, regardless of who calls it off, you’re both
feeling sad, unfulfilled and wondering if you cut a
good thing short, TOO quickly.

I’ve noticed this is USUALLY due to a lack of communication.

And no – Not “Dr. Phil” bullshit, either.

I’m talking about you being 100% clear and upfront with
your girl about how you’re feeling, and how your
relationship could be better.

Because I’m almost POSITIVE she’s keeping her feelings
from YOU, as well.

In fact, in the past ten years, I’ve noticed relationships
tend to come to an end because women keep THREE important
secrets to themselves.

Then she broods over them.

And before you know it, she’s upset with you – even RESENTS
you – and you had no idea it was coming.

So here are those three main secrets, and how YOU can
side-step the fights, before they ever happen:

*********************************
SECRET SHE’S KEEPING FROM YOU #1:
THE BIG “O” – OR LACK OF IT
*********************************

Sadly, this is the big secret she’s keeping from you:

The Sex Just Ain’t Good As It Used To Be!

And it’s not your fault, either.

The fact of the matter is, good sex – even GREAT sex -
gets boring when you have it all the time.

So she starts to get “used” to it.

So it doesn’t “excite” her as much, any more.

So she doesn’t “want” it as much.

And then you think she no longer finds you sexy,
or is seeing another man.

When NOTHING is farther from the truth!

The good news is, this is the easiest secret to
discover, and to fix:

FIRST: If your sex life isn’t getting STONGER and MORE
FREQUENT, she’s probably holding this secret from you.

Pretty easy so far, right? Great.

SECOND: Get her “charged back up”

This is also fun, but a bit more challenging:

Because what she’s missing is the EXCITEMENT and VARIETY
you two had, when you first started having sex.

So all you need to do, to re-spark the heat (or to keep
her from going stale in the first place) is to keep
your bedroom antics HOT and SPONTANEOUS.

Here are some great tips:

1) Keep sex OUTSIDE of the bedroom.

If you only have sex in one place, or at the same time
every day, she’s going to get bored.

So vary it up. Have a morning quickie. Jump her BEFORE
dinner.

And bend her over the kitchen table or back seat of
your car from time to time. Even though you have a
comfy bed waiting for you two.

It will reheat her engines, and make her “ready and
willing” much, MUCH longer into your relationship.

(I still have regular, daily sex with my girlfriends
YEARS into our relationship, because of this)

2) DON’T always aim for the “Big O”

Yes, you want to make her orgasm sometimes.

(Hell, it’s fun for both of you)

But it shouldn’t be your GOAL for sex, all the time.

This goes hand in hand with what I said above:

If she KNOWS the routine, it won’t excite her.

So having a 15-minute quickie where you’re really dominant,
and the focus is on YOU will actually make it EASIER for
her to climax the next time you two are together, because
she won’t worry whether you’re having fun or not.

You’ll be “orgasm equal”, so to speak.

3) Don’t be scared to dominate her.

Take control in the bedroom.

Talk dirty to her.

Throw her around a little bit.

Change positions whenever – and to whatever – YOU want.

It may seem forward, at first, but she’ll get much, MUCH
more out of the sex when she knows she can’t just walk
all over you in bed.

And as long as you let her know you care for and respect
her AFTER the sex… She’ll love it. Even get off on it.

So your sex will be PASSIONATE for the duration of
your relationship. :-)

Onto the next one!

*********************************
SECRET SHE’S KEEPING FROM YOU #2:
THE REAL MEANING OF “FORGET IT”
*********************************

This secret is almost common sense.

And it’s been made fun of on sitcoms since the 1990s.

But it doesn’t mean it’s any less true. In fact, the
sad truth that people IDENTIFY with the woman who says

“Nevermind”

And then holds a grudge is a testament to just how
MANY women say this, on a daily basis.

The fact of the matter is this:

If Your Fights End Clean, Your Sex Can Stay Dirty.

So if she tries to “walk away” from a misunderstanding,
just stop her and say:

“Baby, I know you’re still upset. And I don’t want
us going to bed mad at each other tonight. I promise
to listen the best I can, so tell me what’s on your
mind”

And then listen.

If you can fix it, fix it.

But most of the time, just recognizing the she needs
to VENT is enough to calm her down.

Which will make a “buildup” of negative feelings
almost impossible.

Last secret:

*********************************
SECRET SHE’S KEEPING FROM YOU #3:
WHY SHE NEEDS YOU TO TAKE CHARGE
*********************************

Even the most POWERFUL, RICH or FEMINIST woman
needs a man who can take charge, in her life.

In fact, the more successful or empowered a woman
IS, the more she CRAVES a dominant man in her life.

This isn’t because she wants to be “put down” or
“in her place”, either. There’s nothing further
from the truth.

Because the TRUTH is that a POWERFUL woman needs a
POWERFUL man. Because she can’t respect a wimpy guy.

So when you see beautiful girls with guys with money,
or power… That’s the reason.

Because she feels he’s more POWERFUL than her.

Thankfully, you don’t need the power, or the money
or the fame to have beautiful women treat you with
RESPECT and LOVE.

You simply need to learn how to be dominant.

Are you dominant? Well, let’s see:

* Are you the LEADER of your social group, or the
follower?

* Do you make your own decisions, or let other men
or women make decisions for you?

* Do you feel in CONTROL of your dating and sex life?
Or do you try to “get lucky”?

As you probably guessed, the first option is
the life of a dominant man. And the second?

Well… Not so much.

But you can change your life.

You can go from wimp to pimp with women. (Witty, right?)

I know because I’ve been awful with women, and I even
let my ex-wife walk right out of my life not even ten
years ago.

And now, I have 3 beautiful girlfriends who all love
and respect me. Not to mention want sex CONSTANTLY.

Everything I learned and used to change my situation
is written down in a book I call The Attraction Code.

You can read more about it here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

And if you haven’t picked up a copy, I highly recommend
doing so – Immediately.

But if you specifically want more CONFIDENCE in your
life, you probably want to change how you SEE yourself.
Or how OTHERS see you.

And this all stems from your BELIEFS about you, your
self-image and your ability to meet women. If even one
is lacking, you’ll never be as confident as you naturally
could be.

That’s why I designed The Red Pill Program. It will give
you everything you need to empower your masculine self-
confidence and image. And the best part is, YOU can
take part in this program for whatever YOU think is
fair. Let me know, at the link below:

http://www.GetTheRedPill.com

And today, when you see a beautiful woman, make sure
you USE these three secrets to YOUR advantage.

Not hers.

Sex Secrets She Secretly Wishes You Knew

Posted: 1st September 2010 by Vin in dating
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Sex Secrets She Secretly Wishes You Knew

If you’re looking to give a woman
EXPLOSIVE orgasms, you should know,
the female orgasm comes from her MIND,
not her body.

And the best way to turn her on – to
leave her dripping wet to the touch -
Is to load your interactions with her
with mind-numbing sexual tension.

You can leave her hanging on every word,
and dripping at the end of every sentence,
using the techniques in Dominant Sexual Power.

And you can learn them, at the link
below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

Now, onto an amazing email I got,
just the other day, on the SAME
topic:

***QUESTION***

“I love your book Attraction Code and
Conversation Cure because they helped
me go from insecure and shy around women
to finally talking to the girls at my
work, and even women I met on the street.
My life’s never been better and I feel
more confident than I ever have. My
entire life!

But here’s the thing: When I get a girl
home, I want to rock her world in bed.
Not just make her have an orgasm, or
anything like that, but I want to make
her moan and scream I’m the best she’s
ever had. Got any tips for that?

I know there’s some kind of “sex secrets”
out there. Can you hook a brother up?

Thanks Vin, love your stuff!

- Eugene K., Oregon”

>>> Hey Eugene,

Glad you’re out there talking to women.

It’s a crucial first step, and without it,
the tips I’m about to teach you aren’t
worth the paper you print them out on. ;-)

So… Onto the good stuff…

You say you want her moaning, screaming
and saying you’re the best she’s ever had,
huh?

Well there’s one problem there:

She could be lying. She could be acting to
protect your ego. And she could be exaggerating
in any one of THOUSANDS of ways.

And unless you know what to look for,
you’d miss it completely.

Hell, even if you knew how to spot a “faker”
from a mile away… All you’d do is ruin your
sexual confidence, and be “thrown off your
game”

So screw it!

How about I teach you 4 little-known facts
about what women CRAVE during sex. And when
you use these facts, the woman you’re with
won’t be ABLE to moan, gasp or fake…

… Because she’ll be too busy trying to
catch her breath, and begging for more!

Sound good? Great. Let’s begin:

**********************************
SEX SECRET SHE WISHES YOU KNEW #1:
FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS
**********************************

Like I teach in The Attraction Code,
the secret to being GREAT with women
is LIVING IN THE MOMENT.

This applies to sex, just as well
as it does to dating.

The key to remember is that she wants
to feel like the most beautiful girl
in the world. Even if she doesn’t
want to admit it. And even if compliments
turn her off, or make her shy away.

Deep down, she has a desire – a NEED -
To be WANTED, by you.

So when you’re together with a woman,
alone and naked, the most important
thing you NEED to remember is to
FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS.

Snap yourself back to the moment.

And enjoy every feeling, touch and
sensation you can.

You see, for her, sex is about sharing
a special part of herself with you.

And if you’re not THERE and PRESENT,
it’s almost like she’s “talking to a
wall”

So immerse yourself in the moment.

Here are a few little tricks:

1) Watch Your Breath

Breathe slower. Pace your breath.

This will help you come back to your
body, and feel your hands, your fingers
and your skin more intensely.

As an added bonus, it makes it MUCH
easier to “stand at full attention”
for as long as you wish…

… So if you’re about to get hot and
heavy, I suggest taking some slow,
deep and measured breathes.

2) See The Little Details

I like to make it a game for myself:
What little details can I take in,
about the woman in front of me, and
the room around me?

If I look back on the night, and can’t
seem to remember the little curve on the
inside of her hip, I know I need to pay
more attention, next time.

Because our brains work in an interesting
way: When we focus on the BIG PICTURE,
we tend to get a BIG PICTURE result.

But for women, great sex is all about the
little details. The textures. The sounds.
The feelings, angles and pressures of
your touch and stroke.

So to really turn her on, and make her
go wild, start paying attention to the
little details.

It will shine through to other aspects
of your lovemaking skills.

3) Start Meditating

Put aside at least an hour per week to
meditate.

Buy a guided tape, or just sit back and
clear your mind. But do it, because not
only will you have a clearer mind at all
times, more relaxation and confidence in
nearly EVERY situation known to man-kind…

(as well as NUMEROUS health benefits)

… You will also be able to “snap” yourself
back into the present moment, no matter
what’s going on around you.

And when it comes to sex – Well, that’s
Level One of Tantric Master training.

Which means, you’re already head and shoulders
above ANYONE else who she could be fantasizing
about.

And an additional benefit of meditation
is a “slow burn” focus, which basically
eliminates the need to “rush” into
anything… And leads me to point
number two…

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SEX SECRET SHE WISHES YOU KNEW #2:
TAKE YOUR TIME
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Sex isn’t a race.

And no matter what you see on TV, or hear
in awful pop music, being an “hour lover”
or “minute man” isn’t necessarily a good
or bad thing.

It all depends on the woman.

But the reason there’s this STIGMA for
men who “finish fast”, is because they’re
notoriously known for RUSHING sex. And
making the sexual experience all about
orgasm.

Don’t forget – for a woman, foreplay is
just as, if not MORE important.

So slow down, and smell the roses.

Take an extra minute with everything
you do, next time you’re in bed with
a woman.

Literally, tell yourself to take at LEAST
an extra minute enjoying every stage of
foreplay.

I’m talking kissing, every time you touch
her more intimately, every place your put
your mouth… Everything.

And by the time you enter her, she’ll
be so hot and wild, orgasm will be a
GIVEN, instead of a goal.

The reason this works so well is the same
logic behind women taking HOURS to get
“in the mood”

And the same logic I used to develop the
sexual tension, vision and compliance
secrets I packed into both S-Cubed
and Dominant Sexual Power:
http://www.GoCubeYourself.com
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

… respectively.

When You Tease A Woman, You Make
Her Feel Both A) WANTED and B) SAFE

So let’s look at each, individually:

A) WANTED:

When you take your time with a woman,
you show her that you value her sexuality,
as a person.

And you subtly show her that you’re interested
in her for HER – Not just a pretty face for you
to satisfy yourself with.

It’s the difference between having a hamburger
and Ruth’s Chris steak for her, sexually:

Both will “do the job”, but one’s going to
“hit the spot” and the other leaves her feeling
dirty and used.

Be the steak. Take your time.

B) SAFE

If you take your time, she can relax.

She feels safe and protected.

And biologically, this makes it easier for
her to orgasm.

Because when human’s used to live in tribes and
villages, men were often killed when they were
caught sleeping with the beautiful women.

(These women “belonged” to the alpha male)

But the alpha male could take his time, and
make love to his woman all day — Because he had
no competition or rivals to sneak up on him
and assassinate him while he was distracted.

So – in an under-the-radar way – Taking your
time with her mind and her body lets her know
you’re the type of guy she SHOULD be sleeping
with.

It makes her feel more safe, relaxed and comfortable.

And it makes her orgasm much easier to attain.
Especially when you factor in this next secret:

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SEX SECRET SHE WISHES YOU KNEW #3:
IT’S ALL IN HER MIND
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A woman’s orgasm is 90% in her mind,
and only 10% in her body.

In fact, many modern studies say those %ages
are TOO GENEROUS to her body. And a recent
psychological sex survey says up to 99% of
all women’s orgasms start in her mind.

NOT her body.

Why is this important to you? SIMPLE:

If You Want To Rock Her World In Bed,
Rock Her World OUT Of Bed!

And the most effective way to do this,
is to have TONS of sexual tension in
your conversation with her.

In fact, if you know what to do, you can
“force” her to picture you two in bed together,
while you’re having a casual conversation over
dinner!

Because sexual tension is so powerful,
it over-rides her logical brain, and
triggers her raw, lust-driven ANIMAL
DESIRES. So she can’t help herself
around you.

But because almost every technique has to
do with how you touch her, or specific words
to say to her… These techniques are WAY
too graphic to mention in an email newsletter.

So head on over to this link, right now:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

On that webpage, you’ll learn THREE of my
top tips for creating sexual tension. Even
as soon as the first date!

And you will also learn how to power-up
your sexual confidence and increase your
Dominant Sexual Power.

So head to the link above, right now.

When you come back, I’ll show you…

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SEX SECRET SHE WISHES YOU KNEW #4:
“TELL ME YOU LOVE ME, BABY”
**********************************

… The final sex secret she wishes
you knew: Dirty Talking.

My friend Dan Rose has a whole SECTION on
dirty talk in his amazing book, The Sex God
Method.

And he even considers it one of the
most important factors for being a
great lover.

Now, I don’t know if it’s one of THE MOST
IMPORTANT INGREDIENTS TO GREAT SEX, but
it’s damn close.

So I’m going to teach you TWO central
“themes” of dirty talk, you can use
to drive her wild.

1) Possession

Lots of guys like to go wild, when they
use dirty talk for the first time.

Some call her dirty names, others talk
about things they want to do to her.
And even other guys talk about how
good it feels.

What YOU need to know, is that WHATEVER
you say to her will probably make her MORE
aroused and in the mood…

… As long as you use a “possession” theme
in it.

What’s that? Easy:

A possession theme is basically talking
dirty to her, but always using the word
“My”, as if she belonged to you.

So an example:

“You’re so beautiful when you come”

turns into

“My baby’s so beautiful when she comes”

etc.

She’ll go nuts for this one, I promise.

And the second theme for dirty talk is:

2) Dominance

Seems to pop up a lot, huh?

Well, that’s because dominance and being
in control is the MOST IMPORTANT PART
of meeting women, and being good with
women in general.

And in sex, there’s no exception.

So be the man in charge.

If you want her to do something for you,
let her know and ask her to do it.

And if you want to change positions, toss
her around and change them.

Doing a little rough-housing and man-handling
her in bed will make her go wild.

And dirty talk that lays out in detail
what you’re doing to her will drive
her wild.

So, there you have it.

The Top 4 Sex Secrets She Secretly Wishes You
Knew.

And now you’re equipped with everything
you need to be an amazing lover.

Want more? How about detailed techniques
or word-for-word dirty talk and lines?

Check out Dominant Sexual Power.

Like the name says, it will show you how
to be the dominant sexual FORCE in your
relationships, and how to power-up your
sexual confidence. Read more, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

And if you’re still not “hip” to the basics
of dominance, I highly suggest you check out
The Attraction Code.

In this 200+ page ebook, I lay out the exact
formula you need to go from wherever you are
with women, to the type of guy she’d ditch
her boyfriend for, in a minute.

And you can read free samples, at the link
below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

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